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I don't see the debate here from the side of Christians.

It is God who calls you and not the other way around.

People who are called upon by the Lord intrinsically know that homosexuality is wrong and is a sin.

I hear homosexuals here complain about being unhappy or fears about lonliness.

Read the Bible. Sinning out of fear or for self-endulging is not Christianity.

Hope this helps and don't forget to get a medical check up.
 

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I don't see the debate here from the side of Christians.

It is God who calls you and not the other way around.

People who are called upon by the Lord intrinsically know that homosexuality is wrong and is a sin.

I hear homosexuals here complain about being unhappy or fears about lonliness.

Read the Bible. Sinning out of fear or for self-endulging is not Christianity.

Hope this helps and don't forget to get a medical check up.
No, many Christians do not think that being gay is a sin. There are many gay Christians. I am gay, and I consider myself to be a Christian.

I am not lonely. I am not unhappy. I am very happy, in fact. I love my life.

Perhaps you should listen to some gay people. You might learn something about us.
 
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What debate forum have you been reading?
You are too young to be debating on sexual orientation topics. Come back in a couple years. In some jurisdictions it is illegal to converse with minors on sexual topics.

Please be considerate and remember that you could get someone charged with a felony and sent to prison. Ruin their lives.
 
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You are too young to be debating on sexual orientation topics. Come back in a couple years. In some jurisdictions it is illegal to converse with minors on sexual topics.

Please be considerate and remember that you could get someone charged with a felony and sent to prison. Ruin their lives.

Yeah, you must be reading the wrong forum. It's illegal to have conversations that are sexually explicity. Not conversations concerning the concept of sexuality or the age/when you should start having sex. Besides, I myself am a lesbian.
 
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You are too young to be debating on sexual orientation topics. Come back in a couple years. In some jurisdictions it is illegal to converse with minors on sexual topics.

Please be considerate and remember that you could get someone charged with a felony and sent to prison. Ruin their lives.
As long as you aren't planning on having any sexually explicit conversation with her, I think you're safe.
 
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You are too young to be debating on sexual orientation topics. Come back in a couple years. In some jurisdictions it is illegal to converse with minors on sexual topics.

Please be considerate and remember that you could get someone charged with a felony and sent to prison. Ruin their lives.
What? This is a bizarre statement. It sounds like you are trying to dismiss what another poster says. You also don't seem to recognize the difference between having a discussion about sexual orientation and having an explicit sexual conversation. Sexual orientation is not sex. And a discussion about sexual orientation is not sex either.

Sexual orientation is simply a human characteristic, like being left-handed.
 
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You are too young to be debating on sexual orientation topics. Come back in a couple years. In some jurisdictions it is illegal to converse with minors on sexual topics.

Please be considerate and remember that you could get someone charged with a felony and sent to prison. Ruin their lives.
Whether I favor her opinion or not, do not dismiss her because of her age. Listen to what she has to say. There is a verse on this! With all due respect. Of course we must respect our elders too, but it's kind of hard when you say "Shut up, kid."
 
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No one said "Shut up, kid." It's a valid point. It is illegal to have seuxal conversations with a minor. There should be restrictions on which forums minors can visit here. She's already inviting sexual preditors with her open comment that she is a lesbian. Or maybe she's an undercover cop trolling for a perv.
A discussion about sexual orientation is NOT the same as talking about sex.
 
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No one said "Shut up, kid." It's a valid point. It is illegal to have seuxal conversations with a minor. There should be restrictions on which forums minors can visit here. She's already inviting sexual preditors with her open comment that she is a lesbian. Or maybe she's an undercover cop trolling for a perv.

We don't have conversations about sex here first of all. It's about sexual orientation. Secondly, don't insult me. I'm far smarter than that. And lastly, that would be amusing. Seeing as that's what I want to major in.

I kind of have more confidence in a Christian Forum than that anyway. But if anything like that happens, don't worry, I think I can take care of myself on the internet.
 
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A discussion about sexual orientation is NOT the same as talking about sex.

Exactly. I don't see why her saying she's a lesbian is any more dangerous than saying she's heterosexual. And as long as she doesn't give away contact details (and there's no reason to think that she would) she'll stay safe.
We had the same conversation about younger members posting in here before, and the issue was brought up by the same person both times. Can we not just let it rest now? Conversations on the morality of homosexuality don't have to be sexually explicit. If there are, we have rules to get rid of such posts.
 
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No one said "Shut up, kid." It's a valid point. It is illegal to have seuxal conversations with a minor. There should be restrictions on which forums minors can visit here. She's already inviting sexual preditors with her open comment that she is a lesbian. Or maybe she's an undercover cop trolling for a perv.
All I can tell you is that if my 14 or 16 year old was on line discussing sexual issues with a 40yo I would kick that perverts butt.
 
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All I can tell you is that if my 14 or 16 year old was on line discussing sexual issues with a 40yo I would kick that perverts butt.

Doubtful. You're probably ground the teenager seeing as you can't do anything to said 40-year-old over the internet. Either way, there is no sex talk here.
 
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No, many Christians do not think that being gay is a sin. There are many gay Christians. I am gay, and I consider myself to be a Christian.

I am not lonely. I am not unhappy. I am very happy, in fact. I love my life.

Perhaps you should listen to some gay people. You might learn something about us.
Prove it. Give us survey results. Don't make claims you can't back.
 
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Sweety, you are 16 years old, on the internet, and telling the whole world you have a confused sexual orientation.

You could not take care of goldfish let alone yourself.
Wow. You are being really rude for no reason. I'm pretty sure most 16 year olds would know when some one was coming on to them over the internet. :doh:
And fathersdaughter has certainly proved herself to be quite able to carry on a serious and smart discussion on this forums.
 
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Wow this thread certainly spiralled quickly.

Certainly want to say that at 16 a person is fully capable of having a mature discussion and debate about sexuality.

At 16 in particular someone is not a minor. Under UK law it is fully legal for them to be sexually active with another person aged 16 or older.

I see no problem with older teenagers taking part in discussion here your going to be plenty aware about the issues raised here when you are 14,15,16 etc..
 
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No, many Christians do not think that being gay is a sin. There are many gay Christians. I am gay, and I consider myself to be a Christian.
But the OP addresses what God calls and says not what people think.
But I get the sense that Carmody is correctly saying that the mark of a believer is knowing they are sinners and therefore what sin is. Romans 2 starts by saying to believers that believers know they do the same things, its the non-believers who then say ah some of those sins arent sin. That is the indication Romans 1 isnt for them as they dont believe it.
 
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