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Indeed.What bekki is describing, does, sadly, happen in some circles. I wouldn't say all, but too many.
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Indeed.What bekki is describing, does, sadly, happen in some circles. I wouldn't say all, but too many.
Do you understand what the word "conservative" means? It means either trying to maintain the status quo or trying to move back to an earlier status quo.As a conservative Christian, I must say this criticism is hardly fair.
But my questions are, is it possible? And if possible, is it something people actually want to work together on?
I don't see how such a partnership would be possible (or desired) when one of the very foundations of conservative Christianity is that women are NOT equal to men.
I have yet to see conservative Christians in pursuit of any sort of goal to combat misogynistic men. Quite the opposite, in fact.
And when sex abuse cases are brought up, the only real horror I've seen among conservatives as a whole isn't for the victims of abuse, but for those who are apparently being falsely accused.
Wanting to push uncomfortable publicity back under a rug isn't anywhere near the same thing as wanting to honestly acknowledge and deal with the misogyny that is solidly ingrained in their very doctrines and institutions.
Have conservative Christians been speaking out against misogyny in Christianity and against rape, and in support of the victims rather than their rapists on a WIDESCALE basis? Much of what I see (as well as many unbelievers who are horrified with Christianity due to conservative Christians) is more like what I read in this article:
Do you understand what the word "conservative" means? It means either trying to maintain the status quo or trying to move back to an earlier status quo.
By being supportive of an egalitarian (or even feminist) viewpoint, you have left being conservative behind.
Most everyone I know would count me conservative also.Anyone who knows me would definitely classify me as a conservative Christian. And I would classify myself as that also.
While the ideal to any of the problems encompassed in headship and submission doctrine are notably that each person, no matter the gender, interpret so that none feel that the other have a foot on one’s neck. Simply because that is the interpretation of Christ’s power over satan, but more importantly because it’s a lie as to the position accorded us by the Father,I just want the Bible to actually be interpreted for what it actually says regardless of who believed what in any era. I would classify myself as a fundamentalist in that I believe the Bible (as originally written) is inspired, inerrant and literally correct.
I believe that many have misunderstood the Bible's teachings on marital roles. In any case, I want to live my life according to what the Bible says, in the best way I can understand it.
Anyone who knows me would definitely classify me as a conservative Christian. And I would classify myself as that also.
That applies to the verses of a man in control of his house. Man is an alternative pronouncement of mankind. All of the household of mankind is involved in this relationship.He doesn't see any verses allowing pastors to gather power and lord over their flocks. He sees the pastor's role as a servant to the church, not a lord over it.
That is the biblical position of all in Christ, so for me, for him to not engage in understanding is ignorance resulting from simply ignoring part of scripture that God wants understood. How can that be any less than choosing one scripture over another.Yet, he doesn't seek power over me or over anyone. He 'takes the lower seat', he says there are no verses in the Bible that direct him to take control or exert control over me, he says any 'submit' verses are to me rather than him and they are none of his business, etc etc.
In home and in a church and that goes for anyone. Too bad he only thinks males are included in that as an indication of the Holy Spirit, while thinking women need to be commanded to do against their nature that lacks the Holy Spirit by the implication.The Holy Spirit's work in his heart to bring out the fruits of the Spirit and shun the fruits of darkness is antithetical to grabbing power.
Both of you have come to conclusions completely different about each other and the motives that drive the marriage. Altho I commend you on both for not usurping God within it. However it still seems like a game of make believe that you have grown accustomed to and leaves miles of wiggle room for being of one Spirit and one mind.Therefore, the end fruits of our diverging views on this issue are the same and I have a marriage that any egalitarian would also love to have. He has a marriage that any headship guy would love to have. I feel our marriage is egalitarian and he feels our marriage is a headship one.
Too bad he only thinks males are included in that as an indication of the Holy Spirit, while thinking women need to be commanded to do against their nature that lacks the Holy Spirit by the implication.
THowever it still seems like a game of make believe that you have grown accustomed to and leaves miles of wiggle room for being of one Spirit and one mind.
I think what Becky is doing is shaking the jar of type settings and finding many who hide behind lies.
As well as out of the mouth come the musings of the heart. Matthew 15:18It's a funny thing.... the Bible says "by their fruits ye know them". It doesn't say "by their doctrines ye know them.”
Have you seen any of the threads discussing Cardinal Pell?
I don't know what you are trying to say here. Bekky was being rude and stereotyping people who are not like her with a broad brush of what she imagines to be true but is not. I would say that is hiding behind lies.
Then he surely does not understand Hebrews chapter 13; specifically verse 17. It is a command to submit and OBEY congregational leadership.He doesn't see any verses allowing pastors to gather power and lord over their flocks. He sees the pastor's role as a servant to the church, not a lord over it. He has served as an interim pastor from time to time.
I honestly don’t see how any of it has anything to do anything except with the gift of administration which anyone can claim I’m sure. Very Pauline and very Judaist, both in the setting of Levitical ministry, which is passed away. However Hebrews 13 points outside of that altar.Then he surely does not understand Hebrews chapter 13; specifically verse 17. It is a command to submit and OBEY congregational leadership.
If he really thinks gathering power over a wife is proper and biblical, then a pastor gathering power over him is just as biblical.
By the same token, if he thinks a pastor is to serve the church, then a husband ought to serve his wife.
Ya can’t have it both ways.
I looked him up. That's quite a story of being hoisted on his own petard, if the allegations of his abuse are true.
Kudos to him, however, for acknowledging the abuse was wrong and setting up a system to protect from and expose abuse. Most abusers are all about enabling their continued abuse rather than doing something to protect the victims against their own behaviors.
Perhaps he wanted to be caught in his addiction to abuse (assuming the allegations are true)?
It's impossible for me to understand why people can't just do their work and then go home. Why are there even these little interactions that might be upsetting, flirtatious, etc.? just do your work and leave.I do sense that woman are increasingly viewed as more of a potential liability in the workplace.
I have personally experienced significant limitations in my career due to the glass ceiling just under the old boy's network because they want to be pigs in their meetings. It wasn't until a man who knew me very well was included in these meetings that I heard what was going on, how denigrating they were towards the women in the company (referring to them as c**ts for example) and how I'd never get a promotion because I was a woman. I left that position in 2011.
Yet I've worked at companies that were very respectful and inclusive of women at all levels. Whether you will be discriminated against in a promotion or even being hired is still a crap shot, even now in 2019, and I think the instinct/desire to hire men instead of women is getting worse with ##metoo.