YochananNorth
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Hello.
I won't say I'm qualified to give advice at this point, although my own situation is very different. But...
Have you heard of the push-pull effect? It's human psychology to want someone more when they pull away. You can employ this by giving him some space. You want to be kind to him when he interacts with you, but stay away from being the initiator for a while. Be sure to keep yourself attractive to him (both physically and psychologically). Give him the "feel of the chase".
And as you withdraw, if over time you don't have him chasing you, it could indicate something wrong. But you shouldn't leave without just cause, like adultery.
I won't say I'm qualified to give advice at this point, although my own situation is very different. But...
Have you heard of the push-pull effect? It's human psychology to want someone more when they pull away. You can employ this by giving him some space. You want to be kind to him when he interacts with you, but stay away from being the initiator for a while. Be sure to keep yourself attractive to him (both physically and psychologically). Give him the "feel of the chase".
And as you withdraw, if over time you don't have him chasing you, it could indicate something wrong. But you shouldn't leave without just cause, like adultery.
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