- Oct 23, 2017
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- Methodist
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Hi there,
I am new to this but need advice. Someone in our congregation received this letter from our preacher. The person left church 5-10 minutes early to attend her grandsons football game. Anyway our preacher was apparently very upset about this and chose to send her a letter instead of briefly discussing it with her. I fee like the letter was rude and angry sounding and it could have been handled better. The person that received this letter does a lot for our small congregation of approximately 20-30 people so I'm in shock that our preacher wouldn't just ask her about why she left early instead of writing her this letter. I am trying to see both sides but how does he know she wasn't ill and needed to leave? I believe this letter is judgmental and am not liking the negativity that's been happening in our church. I have small children in our church and have occasionally had to get up and leave, now I'm worried I'll be considered rude and disrespectful if I have to quietly excuse myself. I am taking the names out of this but here is the letter;
I really don't care when you get up and leave church! I've been told by several members of the church that it is rude and disrespectful for people to get up and leave before church is over! I agree, unless someone tells me before church that they have to leave early.
Others that leave early let me know that they will be leaving for a specific reason!
I would appreciate some respect in the future, if you think something is more important that one hour of worship. When your disrespect and rudeness affects others attending church you are disrespecting the sanctity of God!
No one is entitled to just get up and leave church!
Sincerely,
Pastor
I am new to this but need advice. Someone in our congregation received this letter from our preacher. The person left church 5-10 minutes early to attend her grandsons football game. Anyway our preacher was apparently very upset about this and chose to send her a letter instead of briefly discussing it with her. I fee like the letter was rude and angry sounding and it could have been handled better. The person that received this letter does a lot for our small congregation of approximately 20-30 people so I'm in shock that our preacher wouldn't just ask her about why she left early instead of writing her this letter. I am trying to see both sides but how does he know she wasn't ill and needed to leave? I believe this letter is judgmental and am not liking the negativity that's been happening in our church. I have small children in our church and have occasionally had to get up and leave, now I'm worried I'll be considered rude and disrespectful if I have to quietly excuse myself. I am taking the names out of this but here is the letter;
I really don't care when you get up and leave church! I've been told by several members of the church that it is rude and disrespectful for people to get up and leave before church is over! I agree, unless someone tells me before church that they have to leave early.
Others that leave early let me know that they will be leaving for a specific reason!
I would appreciate some respect in the future, if you think something is more important that one hour of worship. When your disrespect and rudeness affects others attending church you are disrespecting the sanctity of God!
No one is entitled to just get up and leave church!
Sincerely,
Pastor