For the last year my marriage has been painful, we fought all the time, in the last six months he started gambling extensively he took all the money we had left, I couldnt pay bills it was so frustrating. Finally he told me that he didnt want to change he enjoyed gambling and he was going to sell our house and pay off my car and I could leave. So I quit a job I loved, took my daughter out of school and moved back to my Moms that was 3 weeks ago. The week before I left I found a cell phone bill with a bunch of texts on his phone he told me it was nothing that he had been flirting with a coffee girl they texted for awhile then he told her he was married and they never actually met. Some of those texts were late in the night when he was gambling and I was sitting at home stressed not able to sleep because he would not answer my calls. We have two kids, my son stayed with him to finish out the school year and I have never been away from him.
Now he calls me today and tells me he is depressed and wants me to come home. I am angry, how could he put me through this make me leave everything, my job, my life there and then weeks later change his mind. I am incredibly hurt over the girl and not sure I can forgive him or even trust him again. I dont know what to do, I told him I could not say yes right now.
Now he calls me today and tells me he is depressed and wants me to come home. I am angry, how could he put me through this make me leave everything, my job, my life there and then weeks later change his mind. I am incredibly hurt over the girl and not sure I can forgive him or even trust him again. I dont know what to do, I told him I could not say yes right now.
