My Oldest daughter has struggled with an eating disorder for the last year and was recently diagnosed with autism this past summer . she regularly sees mental health in our town for the past year , she is 15 years old. About a week ago at one of her appointments she came out and told me she wants to be a boy and be called Elliott before this I wouldn't of even guessed she would want to be a boy she never dressed or desired to and she wasn't a dress kind of girl but she was just her normal self to me . I don't want to sound awful and say she is doing this for attention but i was told that this famous person came out in the news and calls herself Elliott too I'm not sure if it is connected somehow . I love my daughter no matter what I told her this I told her that I believe God made us in his image for a reason and purpose ultimately I told her its her choice but I don't like it or agree with it , I also told her she's always my little girl to my husband and I and we are not ready to call her what she desires to be called and part of that is because I feel like if I do even if I don't agree with it that ill be conforming to the pattern of the world view and as a Christian I just cant do that . to me its like id be deny God and going with it being ok in the worlds eyes and what I have a extremely hard time with is in the eyes of mental health and in the school systems and basically everywhere else its really accepted and a lot of people are making me feel really bad for not just accepting this is the way it is . I'm having such a hard time accepting this I love my daughter with all my heart and will continue to but in my home and I just can't be ready to accept she's a boy yet I'm not sure how to handle this my husband is feeling so lost too I have 2 other kids that are also confused about all this my 10 yr old and my 7 yr old my oldest keeps telling them to call her Elliott and she wont answer them if they don't she also wont answer us either its got to the point where she gets extremely upset if we accidently say she or call her by her birth name. she threatens to run away. a lot of people are telling us to love her though this and we are definitely going too just I don't know what else to do to make it feel like we all are not walking on egg shells and I'm not sure what direction to go. Am I doing the right thing to not follow the world and the views of the world or do I just accept calling her what she wants to be called and make her happy I feel like then Id be dishonoring God and not putting him first .