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@bekkilyn I don't see how this man's refusal to stop drinking half a dozen glasses of wine a year is 'dominating' his wife. I think it may be the other way round. I'm rather concerned by a wife who regards the fact that she 'did not forbid' her husband to drink as somehow worthy of comment. We are not talking about a disobedient household pet, but a grown man, a husband and father and an elder within the church. 'Forbidding' is not a word that should be used in a relationship between mature adults.
My argument is that a major decision such as starting to drink after 13 years when there was no previous expectation that either of them would be using alcohol at all needs to be a mutual one, not just made by one or the other.
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