According to some EVERYTHING IS RACIST. I do not hold that view.
I am sorry that you were offended, that was not my intent. But you should make sure that you are being offended by something worthy of offense, and not like so many do nowadays, be offended for the sake of being permanently offended.
Whatever your race is I DON'T CARE. Not my privilege or my burden. Whatever somebodies ancestors did 200 years ago is history, not a real problem. Are there any slaves on the forum today? No? OK, quit whining about slavery.
Were the Irish treated like crap when they came to the US? You betcha, so were the Italians, and the Chinese. The natives
were practically exterminated. As others have said, the sooner people quit obsessing over their color and whining about the past the better everything will be.
To me that was worthy of offense and the latter part of your post is too. The reason people are "whining" about slavery is because some of the same mindsets( bias,prejudices) and actions that came from the 1809's are still spilling over into 2016. When an officer can shoot someone ,who happens to be black, for no reason and say " I dont know" and that is supposed to be a suffice answer...and even more, its not a one time event but multiple...and people tell you to get over it like youre supposed to get over it and be glad that it wasn't you....
That is a problem, that is a MAJOR problem.
For one, because it could have been me..or someone else I know.... Expect I wasn't In the right place at the right time.
Two, it reveals the lack of empathy people seem to display for certain people. And to trivialize and belittle one's pain is a horrible thing to do especially after a tragedy...
Which is why I don't like it when people say, black people keep whining about slavery or just need to get over it. That along with the Holocaust was one of the most horrendous displays of human depravity...and to trivialize it by saying, " just get over it" or " you weren't in it" is so rude to say..just because it didnt happen to me I'm not supposed to feel sorrow for those people..who looked like me and could have been me if I were born in that time period...
No..i won't..because I have a heart..that feels, even though it happened long ago those were people with hearts and souls and dreams and what happened was tragic...but alot of people they keep them selves from acknowledging that.
One thing I hear from Caucasian people... Is that, " well ..i didnt do it, I didnt do anything wrong...stop trying to make me feel guilty"
No you didnt do anything, you didnt cause this. None of it. The same way I didnt cause the holocaust...my name isnt Hitler , but I can still look at that event and empathize with those people and be moved for them and not get defensive...
No one is looking for an apology BC one I dont need an apology, no one did anything to me... No is trying to make you feel guilty..at least not me...
The only thing I'm saying is, even though you had nothing to do with an event...it shouldn't keep you from being able to empathize with those who have suffered hardship.
Also, I see alot of black people who are still angry...and try to place blame on white people today for something their ancestors did. The sins of the father shouldn't fall on their children, you cant be angry or mad at someone who did nothing to you... You have to give everyone a fair chance ..and just let everyone's personal character and personal actions speak for themselves. You cant hang such a heavy past over their heads. Its a burden.
There's still so much id like to say but I feel this post is probably incredibly lengthy already. And while I appreciate and love the discussion id like to see more solutions.