Missing...

[Molloyboy]

Hey,

I know I just seem like another pathetic moaning bloke, but yea...this is really starting to get to me now! I havent 'been' with anyone for around 4 months and i am now really missing everything its all about, and tonight (nothing is significant) i am finding it really oddly tough. I just really miss 'those feelings' and that closeness with someone...argh yea!

So some prayer would be good before it gets worse...thanks guys

 

[Koop]

I"m praying with ya! I feel your pain too........ it sucks.

 

[msjones21]

I'll be praying for you. Just remember, God loves you more than anyone here on earth can. Try and meditate on the feelings you get when you're communicating with Christ, when you're walking in His light. Pray for His guidance and strength. I know it's difficult not having human companionship, but remember, feelings are fickle and people will betray you. Jesus is a friend who will stick closer than a brother. God bless and may the peace of the Lord be with you.

 

[72_Chev_Truck]

Hey, I know exactly how you feel except ive been single for a little over 2 years i think. I definately miss having a girl to wrap my arms around, to be the protector in a relationship. I have found though that having friends that are girls are just as awesome as a close relationship without a lot of the emotional stress. Ive made friends with a lot of fun girls in the past 2 years and since im so devoted to my friends they know that if they have a problem that i will come running to help them out. I still get to be the protector! Believe me i still get in those ruts some nights where i just feel out of place but i have enough awesome friends that i can call and hang out with. Another thing that ive found to be useful is keep yourself busy. This keeps you from worrying about what can, will, or wont happen. I also have said for the past 6 months or so that I cannot afford to have a gf (and with my shady sexual past this is a good thing) because I purchased a vehicle i have to make payments and this keeps me away from the women who will cause me problems. The women who want to be more then friends. I could go on and on about this subject as i have been through some pretty crappy relationships but I know now that God has that one special woman waiting for me and at the right moment we will cross paths. I still have that problem with waiting though so I occasionally seek out a relationship with a prospective girl but soon find myself saying nope i cant date her. Sorry this was so long! Have a Great Day