SkyLark,
There is a statement in the D&C (13, 124, 128) regarding the Aaronic priesthood being taken from the earth when the sons of Levi offer an acceptable offering in righteousness. The statement that Ammon raised brought this to mind.
But, let me state again, so everyone understands:
1.) There is NO scriptural support for blacks being "neutral" in heaven.
2.) There is NO scriptural support for the last soul of the blacks that were neutral to die and then they could recieve the priesthood.
3.) We DO know what happened in regards to the priesthood ban, but NOT why.
4.) I also made statements that to me concretely rule out racism as the reason for the ban.
5.) It is also clear that those in the pre-existance were valient enough to come to this earth. 1/3 of the hosts of heaven were cast out. So the remaining 2/3 made the "cut-off"
6.) Whatever happened in pre-existance we cam to this earth as innocent through the future atonement of Jesus. Foreordination and predestination still played a part, which provided opportunity.
Ammon may have a different view as to what constitutes official doctrine and our standard by which we judge ourselves and our church, but I feel the strongest evidences point towards LDS scripture and official statements made by the 1st Presidency, and accepted by the Qof12 and the general church body.
The LDS just like anyone else when little information is given on a subject, especially when its as touchy as the priesthood ban will try to give answers that will satisfy those with honest questions. The problem is that in doing so they tend to extend themselves beyond the boundaries of what scripture and official statements dictate as our standard of judgement.
Enquiring minds do want to know, is a powerful pill, but as another cliche goes, curiosity killed the cat.
I'm not denegrating any of the LDS leaders, but trying to explain the best I can why there have been many questionable statements.
Hope that helps.
Tom