The Law commands men to go to Jerusalem to appear before Him and His Presence ... The Law commands the tithe you mentioned, not exactly to be spent in Jerusalem, but before Him and His Presence, where He decided to place His Name (Shem). His Shem dwelled between the cherubim on the Ark of the Covenant (2 Sam 6:2). We neither have the Temple, nor the Ark of His Presence today, so these particular laws cannot be properly fulfilled. If the Temple, the Ark, and His Presence was in Jerusalem today, I would indeed be planning living arrangements near Jerusalem.
First let me say there are many among both Christians and Jews who would vigorously disagree with you about whether or not God is present in Jerusalem. I understand your intent, but we must choose our words carefully.
But I disagree with you about where it is that the Lord placed His name. He did not place His name between the cherubim of the ark. He placed His name in Jerusalem.
"And
thou shalt eat before the Lord thy God,
in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, the tithe of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks ..." (Deuteronomy 14:23)
Clearly the people did not eat their portion of the tithes between the cherubim of the ark.
"Thou shalt therefore
sacrifice the passover unto the Lord thy God, of the flock and the herd,
in the place which the Lord shall choose to place his name there." (Deuteronomy 16:2)
Again, the Passover was not sacrificed between the cherubim of the ark.
"And thou shalt
rejoice before the Lord thy God, thou, and thy son, and thy daughter, and thy manservant, and thy maidservant, and the Levite that is within thy gates, and the strangers, and the fatherless, and the widow, that are among you,
in the place which the Lord thy God hath chosen to place his name there." (Deuteronomy 16:11)
The people didn't rejoice between the cherubim of the ark.
But finally this word: "And unto his son will I give one tribe, that David my servant, may have a light always before me in
Jerusalem, the city which I have chosen to put my name there." (1 Kings 11:36)
And too, the "ark of his presence" was not in the Holiest during the 2nd temple, but Jesus still went up to Jerusalem for the feasts.
But details aside, just because the Lord does not dwell in a temple in Jeruasalem does not mean you cannot obey the commandment to go to Jerusalem, and bring your tithes and eat it in Jerusalem as commanded in Deuteronomy 14:22-29.
If her husband comes contradicting what he and his father has said before, then it is not her true husband. Everything new the husband says must agree with what came before.
What do you see as contradictions?
And how did Yehoshua walk with His Father?
He was led by the Spirit. (Matthew 4:1, Luke 4:14)
He did works by the Spirit (Matthew 12:28)
He knew men's thoughts by the Spirit (Mark 2:8)
He preached by the Spirit (Luke 4:18)
In addition to the verses I mentioned where Jesus spoke of having been given a commandment by the Father of what to do and what to say.
You know, the Law is not really God's perfect will. When Jesus taught on the subject of marriage and cautioned that what God had joined together man should not put asunder, he was asked why then did Moses command to give a writing of divorcement and to put away a wife? And what was his response?
"Moses
because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so." (Matthew 19:4-8)
That's not to say that there was anything sinful about divorce, it was allowed by Moses, but that is to say that it was not what God intended the marriage union to be. So there were some accommodations made in the Law for men's weaknesses.
I know that may be anathema to those who hold the Law above all else (even it seems above the Gospel?), but the Law was never intended to be the final word of God on obedience and righteousness ... Jesus is.
"It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unot you, they are spirit, and they are life. But there are some of you that believe not." (John 6:63)
In Christ,
Pilgrimer