I disagree with pretty much everything you said here, and frankly, I’m a bit taken aback by your cavalier attitude toward women and co-corkers in general. You come across as one who doesn’t really care what others think, have no respect for debate or constructive dialogue, and perhaps might benefit from honest self-evaluation.
1st.... So, I'm getting the impression now that you only want to hear the advice you want.... because you are now trying to give me advice, and I'm not here for advice. Supposedly you are. I don't need advice, thanks. If you want to give me advice, you can, and I'll ignore it.
I'm not trying to be insulting. I'm just pointing out, you came here on a forum, to ask for advice. Now you don't like it, and are trying to give advice. That's not how this works friend. We're not looking for your advice, or we would have started our own threads.
2nd... And as for not caring about what my co-workers think.... Jesus didn't care what the people of his day thought. Why should I be different?
Luke 13:32
"Go tell that fox"... referring to King Herod. Obviously he was concerned about what people thought of him.
Matthew 15:12
"Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this?"
Jesus replied "Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the roots."
So apparently he didn't care, and the pharisees were not only religious leaders, but leaders in their country.
And especially my pagan co-workers. Christian people who argue with pagans, to me are a little crazy. If you think that you are going to convince someone to follow G-d's moral standard, when they don't even believe in G-d to begin with.... that's a little nuts. Arguing with people, is rather pointless.
3rd.... If you think my advice is bad, and your system is working, go for it. If you think that arguing with your wife until you destroy your marriage is the best plan (which is what you have basically said in some of your other posts), then good luck with that.
Remember, I'm not the one that has to live with your wife. You are.
Look brother, you don't have to take my advice, or anyone's advice. You asked a question on here, and I answered it with the best advice I have of 30 years in the church, and the last 10 years of my own father working as a Christian counselor.
There are topics that my parents don't discuss. He thinks one thing. She thinks another. And they don't argue about it, or talk about it, and they have been married for over 50 years now, and they do absolutely everything together. I mean everything.
If you want that kind of marriage.... then I think you should follow my advice. If you think I'm wrong, then good luck. Hope it works out.