Sweet Shalom of God to you septemberskies!
Here's what could be going on in your life...Jesus would be trying to lead you into a closer relationship with Him...yet you may have bad habits that been hindering you from spiritual growth. You may wrestle with trying to fully surrender these strongholds and or keep falling back into them, as your flesh has become so comfortable with them, revels in gratification, and being in control. Your sister could represent your flesh that keeps attacking you, inciting you to stumble spiritually. The flesh is the enemy's menace...through it...he relentlessly provokes and baits Christians, making sin look pleasurable, scheming to wear them down spiritually, physically, and emotionally, so they have less resistance, give in, and then he gets more of foothold in their life. The deceptive devil makes the flesh seem like a loving sister (brother), in order that Christians unwittingly heed their flesh...and become drawn ever so slowly farther and farther away from Jesus!
The enemy laughs because he gets Christians fighting against the Holy Spirit over their detrimental, carnal habits...negative things that lead to their vexation and block them from experiencing God's satisfying joyful Presence and more of His loving goodness. Over habitual sins, the devil schemes to keep Christians in a seemingly futile...sinning, repenting, sinning, repenting, sinning, repenting...cycle. The enemy slyly persuades Christians, and as yet non Christians, to erroneously believe that God Most High is forcing them to give up somtin more valuable than what they will gain. Yet in reality, one is only surrendering unhealthy 'filthy rags', in return for liberating everlasting treasures! For each Christian, Jesus truly has their very best interests in heart...a wonderful destiny for their utter fulfillment! Way above and beyond all that they could possibly ask, think, hope, or imagine!
Proverbs likens Wisdom to a sister, so the battle between one's spirit versus their flesh could also be likened to fighting against Wisdom. Doesn't make any sense to fight against our Omniscient, Omnipotent, Omnipresent, Holy God who be the epitome of good!
In terms of living in more victory over the fight between you spirit and flesh...consider this...whatever you feed the most, will be the strongest. Feasting on the living and powerful Word of Truth, will certainly help build up your spiritual muscles!
Another theme in your dream is unconditional forgiveness. Your sister kept apologizing, yet kept poking at ya. Forgiving others doesn't mean they will get off scot free, though being merciful does mean that you are free from being held in bondage to them through unforgiveness. God is for you, so let Him do 'business' with your enemies. We all need to keep forgiving, as we been forgiven by Christ.
Matthew 15:21-22 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.
Reading
Romans 6-8; Galatians 5-6; Ephesians 2, Colossians 3, James 1; 1 Peter and 2 Peter...will give you more insight about what you been experiencing.
