Seriously? Wow. I've seen a lot of nonsense in my life, but this post takes the cake. Hasn't learned to endure? Every day is learning to endure when you endure a traumatic experience. My dad passed awhile ago. It messed me up for a long time and I'm healthier now than I've been in a long time.
But, today is my dad's birthday and I'm really struggling today. I'll probably always struggle today, and on Halloween, the day he died. It's not something you ever just forget about. Ever. Give people a break. You seem like you're the one with crazy, irrational standards.
My dad died just only a few years ago. People mourn in different ways, but it gets easier each year though, at least for me and my mom. I thought it was nicely orchestrated.
For one, his health was poor as it was and he was suffering. So I felt when God took him, I was comforted in knowing it was his time to go as the writing was on the wall.
But I took great joy in feeling that God had told me everything is going to be okay. Each year it does get easier though, but I have my moments where I just enjoy myself, talking to him from time to time when it comes around the time of Christmas or his birthday. It somehow wound up being a positive experience.
2. If a couple (married, dating, or just friends) have issues over calling something like a drink a dealbreaker, how much more problems are they going to struggle with in the deeper areas of life and decisions.
Exactly...
The purpose of God in our lives is to pray to him in hopes that we can endure the through rough patches in life. If it's still impacting you, you may want to go to a grieving support group or just find a friend to talk to about it.
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