didaskalos said:
They were wrong to do that.
Yes, they were. Unfortunately, this is more common than a lot of people realize.
But do not toss out the baby with the bath water.
I'm not. This is just one of many symptoms of the problems with WoF theology.
Are you sure they did what you describe? Or is this just something you are assuming.
I lived this for two years before God got me out of it.
Did they come to you and say these things? Did they actually say "you are not as good a Christian as I am because you drive a jeep"?
Word for word.
I was told over and over that I was "sowing poverty into my life", that I didn't have any faith, and that I was poor because I was disobedient in that area of my life. They told me I would never be rich until I stepped out on faith and spent money as though I already had it.
The funny thing is, I was what many people would consider rich.
At that time, because I had a minority ownership in two successful restaurants at the Jersey Shore and because of my investments, I made more in a year than the average five or six people in that church put together.
Because I was brought up knowing what it meant not to have any money, material things just didn't mean that much to me. I figured I had gotten along without them all my life and was happier than most rich people I know.
And, as a bachelor, with no wife or kids and no debts, I didn't really need these things anyway.
The ironic thing is, now, at almost forty years of age, I have a sucessful business, a nice house, a weekend property on eleven acres on the Chesapeake Bay, two cars, two boats and two jet skis, not one penny of debt, and am seriously considering retiring, now they condemn me for not accepting WoF doctrine.
So, basically, the WoF movement considers me damned if I do, and damned if I don't, which is fine with me. God delivered me out of that and there's no way I'm ever going to wear those chains again.
Did they actually ever say "God approves of me.... see how wealthy I am"?
Constantly.
They often held up their cars and clothes and furniture as a sign of God's hand on their life. What they never bothered to mention was that they went into debt so badly that some of them had to declare bankrupcy and some others defaulted on all of their debts.
Can you remember anyone actually saying that?
Oh yes. I remember standing in the parking lot of the church and trying to explain to someone why I wanted my old Jeep, rather than their expensive new car. In addition to the fact that I just liked the Jeep, with my lifestyle, the car would have been impractical.
I was told that people would judge God by the blessings of His people and that I was not only being a bad witness, but a bad Christian.
If they did not.... then I might suggest you have some self inspection to do.
If they did not, then I wouldn't have said that they did.