Ok... this is progress. Please understand I am sitting down reading the Koran and trying to have an educated discussion. I still do not see what you do but I am at least making an attempt to see your point of view. What I am asking is: is there a clear cut definitive scripture in the Koran commanding believers to not seek retribution, or to not visit punishment upon non believers?
That's an entirely different question than what you were asking before. Before you were asking if Allah blessed believers and unbelievers and I therefore provided the evidence that He did. You also asked where the Qur'an says to stop beheading people and I pointed out that it never said to start beheading people. But now it seems you are changing the topic entirely. The Muslims were in an entirely different position than Christians during Paul's time or Christ's. Their situation was much closer to that of the Hebrew people when they were besieged by enemies on all sides. When one is personally wronged forgiveness is appropriate, whether the person is of one one religion or not.
“Be quick in the forgiveness from your Lord, and pardon (all) men – for Allah loves those who do good.”
[Surah ali Imran; 3:133-134]
Likewise there is a hadith which represents the Prophet as saying the following:
“Do you know what will cause you to have high walled palaces in Paradise (as a symbol of great reward) and will cause you to be raised by God?” When they replied in the negative, he said,
“To be forgiving and to control yourself in the face of provocation, to give justice to the person who was unfair and unjust to you, to give to someone even though he did not give to you when you were in need and to keep connection with someone who may not have reciprocated your concern.”
Similarly the Prophet said that the best of people are those who are slow to get angry and quick to forgive. On the other hand the worst of people are those, he said who get angry quickly but are slow to forgive.
However, forgiveness against an aggressor who continues to attack a community is inappropriate. Should we forgive the terrorists who launched that attack in Paris and let them go? No, that would be foolish as well as unjust because they would just go out and kill some more.
In other words, if someone attacks me, I should forgive. If, on the other hand, they attack my son I have a responsibility to protect him.
It seems to me that if you are total pacifist who doesn't believe in armies or police of any sort you can criticize what the Qur'an says, otherwise it would be hypocritical. Muhammad did not attack anyone because they didn't accept His message. Warfare was authorized to protect the community from persecution, period.