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The_Horses_Boy said:http://www.whitehouse.gov/news/releases/2003/01/20030115-7.html
I said has taken a role towards ending, not that he has ended.
ballfan said:They have at least as much integrity as any other people or politicians.
So again I ask what is it you require of them in order to accept them?
- Steadfast adherence to a strict moral or ethical code.
- The state of being unimpaired; soundness.
- The quality or condition of being whole or undivided; completeness.
Look, I already know the answer and have all along. You object to them having different politics. In order for you to accept them as fully black you need for them to toe the "oppressed" line of thinking. The fact is they're too busy being doers and movers to waste their time with that. They don't have time to feel sorry for themselves and don't need for whites or blacks to feel sorry for them. They are not beholden to anybody. They don't have the "pepetual victim mentality" that so many, both black and white, seem to have. They tend to pander to the better instincts of people rather than the baser instincts. Its probably the reason they're Republicans and not Democrats.
The_Horses_Boy said:Perhaps I'm just misunderstanding something, but it seems to me like people are saying that "Rice and Powell are sellouts to the black race." ... Are they supposed to have some loyalty to the black race? Perhaps that might sound like an odd question to ask, but perhaps we can turn it around: am I supposed to have a loyalty to the white race?
If I've just misunderstood, which I can see as likely being the case, please explain to me how they are sellouts, because before one can be a sellout one must first have a loyalty to such a group. Did they have loyalty to the black race, besides the assumed, in which case I ought to, by the same measurements, have a loyalty to the white race? (boy doesn't that phrase sound familiar)
ballfan said:They have at least as much integrity as any other people or politicians.
So again I ask what is it you require of them in order to accept them?
- Steadfast adherence to a strict moral or ethical code.
- The state of being unimpaired; soundness.
- The quality or condition of being whole or undivided; completeness.
Look, I already know the answer and have all along. You object to them having different politics. In order for you to accept them as fully black you need for them to toe the "oppressed" line of thinking. The fact is they're too busy being doers and movers to waste their time with that. They don't have time to feel sorry for themselves and don't need for whites or blacks to feel sorry for them. They are not beholden to anybody. They don't have the "pepetual victim mentality" that so many, both black and white, seem to have. They tend to pander to the better instincts of people rather than the baser instincts. Its probably the reason they're Republicans and not Democrats.
SummerMadness said:Yep, keep talking, it only serves to drive blacks further away from the Republican party. Why do people even ask the question if they think they know better than black people in the first place?![]()
Scribbler said:I think losing 4 of her friends to a Klansman's bomb might qualify as 'feeling it', Neverstop.
The_Horses_Boy said:Perhaps I'm just misunderstanding something, but it seems to me like people are saying that "Rice and Powell are sellouts to the black race." ... Are they supposed to have some loyalty to the black race? Perhaps that might sound like an odd question to ask, but perhaps we can turn it around: am I supposed to have a loyalty to the white race?
If I've just misunderstood, which I can see as likely being the case, please explain to me how they are sellouts, because before one can be a sellout one must first have a loyalty to such a group. Did they have loyalty to the black race, besides the assumed, in which case I ought to, by the same measurements, have a loyalty to the white race? (boy doesn't that phrase sound familiar)
Well, forgive me, Neverstop. Rice herself claimed she knew three of the girls and was friends with one of them. Sounds like your facts weren't any straighter than mine. And if losing her friend isn't 'feeling it' enough for you, then the emotional hyperbole is on your end. Just because her parents raised her to be overcomer instead of a victim hardly means she didn't feel what was going on. I suspect if the Klan had burned a cross on her lawn, you'd accuse her parents of closing the drapes.Neverstop said:She did not lose 4 friends...that's a myth. At best, she knew one of the girls who died in that tragedy. Rice was 9 years old at the time. So, I suggest before addressing me personally in the form of emotional hyperbole, at the very least, get the facts right.
Doctrine1st said:maintaining their integrity.
That's not true, being successful doesn't make people believe a person is a sell-out. One comment in an article posted here was that Frederick Douglass was part of the system and because of that, he was able to advance the cause of removing some of the racism and bigotry endemic in American society. Condoleezza Rice claims she is part of the system, the only problem is that she doesn't do the second part, advance the cause to remove racism and bigotry endemic in American society. Now of course that racism is not as bad as before, but it still exists, thus pretending that it's not there is what people deem as selling out. This has nothing to do with success.ballfan said:Blacks who vary from the "oppressed victim mentality" are considered "Uncle Toms" and sellouts.
ballfan said:I think my previous remarks were right on target. Blacks who vary from the "oppressed victim mentality" are considered "Uncle Toms" and sellouts. That type thinking does more to keep blacks down than anything the white man could ever do.
It's just a great big assumption. I myself ask this question because I have no idea where this idea comes from, it's as if someone says, "Black people have a victim mentality," and everyone believes it. Or it probably comes from the attitude that once a person mentions the existence of racism today, they are pretending to be a victim. I think that view is foolish, there is racism, that doesn't mean you are a victim for recognizing it.mhatten said:And you know this how? Are legions of black folks approaching you and saying I have a victim mentality and those brothers and sisters are sellouts because they are sucessful.
I would like to know how people make these determinations about blacks?