Imagine you built a robot. You programmed it to say "Bling is the greatest, Bling is the best!" every 12 minutes.
What would the praise be worth? Nothing, because the robot didn’t
choose to say that. By creating such a robot you basically compliment yourself.
Now imagine you carved a nice little figure out of wood and gave it a soul so that it’s a self-contained being with its own will and emotions. This carving might be sad sometimes that it’s lonely, it even might be angry at you at times because you don’t spend all your time with it, but when this little being appreciates you for who you are, when the carving honors you as its Creator –
that is real worship,
that is actually worth something!
The reason why God created something in the first place is in His honor. We are supposed to glorify God! And for that a free will is essential, it’s absolutely necessary. Free will is the only way to explain the reality we live in: why there is evil in this world, why God is "hidden", why there was a tree of knowledge of good and evil in the garden of Eden (which led to the Fall), even why we live in a fallen Creation and not in paradise.
At the same time we know of God’s sovereignty, and many people see a contradiction between "we have free will" and "God is sovereign". A contradiction that is actually not there. The two concepts of "free will" and "God’s sovereignty" are in fact
complementing one another.
God’s sovereignty protects our free will! Here's why:
God does not force anyone to believe in Him. God reveals Himself to people, He "draws" everyone (John 6:44), but He does not force them to actually allow Him into their life.
Some do not like it, but the devil is the second most powerful being in this universe. God gave him power in this world, and I believe the devil could tempt and deceive us to such an extent that we’re in risk of losing our faith (against our will) – if God did not protect our will! God knows exactly what’s inside our heart. He knows with absolute certainty whether we
want or
don’t want to follow Jesus Christ. And when God sees that we want to believe in Jesus "he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear" (1 Cor 10:13). Do you see? The devil’s the one tempting us, and God, being sovereign, does not allow him to tempt us more than our (free) will can bear!
But who are "the elect"? If God predetermined who will believe and who will reject Him – where is our free will?
A closer look at Romans 8:29-30 will help us to understand the election. It says there:
"For those God foreknew he also predestined […] and those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified".
Do you notice how it does not start with "predestined"? It starts with "foreknew"! God did not create you as someone who will accept Him but He
foresaw that you will be one of those who accept Him. God’s omniscience allowed Him to know which human will believe in Jesus before He even created the earth, and those (who he
foreknew) are the elect!
Again: God knew which human would choose Him by their free will (without wanting to turn away later, unlike some people I know), and, by His sovereignty, He predestined those to keep their faith to the end. The elect are foreknown, not predetermined.
Lastly allow me to clarify the following: God uses His sovereignty to protect our free will
regarding accepting or rejecting God, but this does not mean that He does not influence anything else. God knows very well whether a person wants/would believe in Him, and He uses people accordingly: those who would never decide for God are used in a way that they stay unbelievers (corresponding to their free will) like the pharao (see Exodus 10:20 for example) and those who decided (or will decide) for God will be used to live to God’s glory.
Sanctification is something we cannot achieve by ourselves, just like salvation. It’s beyond our will, and here God’s sovereignty appears again: God will sanctify us and change us into the image of His Son (Romans 8:29). Our free will and God’s sovereignty go hand in hand with each other