It tends to focus the mind.
I find people do this to try to justify some sin or other.
Well, her father is clearly violating God's laws.
Correct. According to the Law given to Moses - he would have been put to death.
So I think we have an answer. Honour your father...unless he is not worthy of being honoured.
The answer is to honor God before anyone else - even your father.
That's been my point from the beginning.
I don't think so.
Obey the rules, unless that you think they don't apply.
That is not the point that I made.
It is not the point made in the Law of Moses.
The point of the Law is to obey God's rules.
We do not determine what rules apply when and where - God does.
We weren't talking about caring for the guy.
Caring for one's parents is part of honoring them.
As I said - to honor one's parents is to appreciate, respect, obey and care for them.
Let's not detract from the actual command. Which was to honour him.
I am on message - you are stuck in your bias.
Which seems to me to be, in this case, reporting him to the police so that he will be punished. I must admit that haven't seen the word used in that sense.
If you love someone then you would want them to repent of their sins.
A part of repentance is confessing your sins and suffering the consequences.
Any rapist who would seek repentance needs to confess their crime, be arrested and go to trial - and hopefully serve a long time if not death for that crime.
If you love someone who has committed a grievous sin and crime - you should encourage them to face the music - so they do not procrastinate the day of their repentance.
If you encourage them to avoid accountability - you probably don't love them.