You also do not understand God setting up governments. We are told there is no authority that is not from God. God sets up government to punish evil doers.
1 Peter 2:13-15 KJV
Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; [14] Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well. [15] For so is the will of God, that with well doing ye may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men:
How do you think governments punish evil doers if they turn the other cheek, like Jesus? It is the church that is called to conform to Christ. The government is not called to be like Jesus. God himself sets up all government and authority, and the Godly have very right to vote. These two are allowed by God for a purpose. You should stop questioning God's role in government.
Romans 8:27-28 KJV
And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God. [28] And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
All things work together toward good for those that love God. Even evil governments.
Both Romans 13 and 1 Peter 2:13-15 are in regards to submitting yourself to governements in regards to matters of justice and in keeping laws that are truly good and peaceful. These passage are not talking about voting in (or placing into power) sinful world leaders or partaking in other political matters that make us side with the world whereby it would conflict with God's laws.
Here is the context:
13 Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme;
14 Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well."
(1 Peter 2:13-14).
1 "Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God.
2 Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation.
3 For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to the evil. Wilt thou then not be afraid of the power? do that which is good, and thou shalt have praise of the same:
4 For he is the minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath upon him that doeth evil"
(Romans 13:1-4).
God cannot side with a person who sides with others who do evil.
It doesn't work like that.
That would be like hiring somebody to kill for you and then saying you did not have anything to do with killing anybody because you did not do the actual killing yourself.
It's no different when you side with worldly leaders who have sinful policies.
Hence, why you are angry and not at peace about this.
You feel it is your God given duty to vote for worldly sinful leaders, when nothing could be further from the truth.
https://www.usa.church/5-bible-verses-explain-why-voting-for-trump-and-clinton-is-sin/
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