transientlife said:
I still don't get the connection you're making between some of the terminology, namely equating courtesy with kinship/placating/affirmation, and on a long shot - the denial of Christianity.
Well, the Bible is clear on how God feels about man making his own gods and worship them, rather than their Creator. As Christians, we are called to affirm God's truth. I don't know of any Christians who are judging these people, but are giving them the truth. If our hearts are with the gospel, we know it and affirm it and teach and so on. I don't see this; I see more working to make pagans feel comfortable in something that will bring enmity between them and God. That's more what I'm getting at.
It seems as if you regard nonChristians as seeking out affirmation from others that their beliefs are ok, and so on. In my experience, I haven't run into many atheists or pagans who are looking for affirmation.
Whether or not they seek affirmation, I'm looking for support of truth. God wants us to affirm Him and His word.
My mission is not to placate pagans, fellow Christians [of varying degrees], atheists or anyone else, it is to treat everyone with courtesy and how I expect to be treated, regardless of faith. My Christian doctrine just seems a tad more liberal than yours, not nonexistent.
It's scripture. It's about what God says. So it's not my doctrine or yours, but what God says that counts.
Thanks so much for the continual denouncements.
This isn't personal-it isn't about denouncements. It's about the truth that can save souls.
Might I add here [again, and like I say in nearly EVERY post] that you can tell a pagan - or whoever the nonChristian is - that they are wrong, they are 'lost', however you want to word it.
I use scripture as my authority. Let me ask you this: what is *your* authority? If you're a Christian, yours has to be the Bible, too.
You can lead them to Jesus/God, but you can't make them believe. Just as someone could introduce you to Allah or Buddha, doesn't mean you will necessarily convert in a miraculous change of heart.
The Christian's job is to do what he/she has been called to do. We are called to make the truth known, and work God's fields. This is our purpose. Everything else we do flows from this purpose.
They could tell you that you were lost and hellbound (which, I'm fairly certain in according to Islam, we are) and they'd probably get the same response from you as you would from them with such a proclamation.
I realize the thread is a long one, but it might be worth it to go and look over the posts anway; these issues were already adressed.
Some people will never believe - and sure it's a sad thing to us Christians, however it is also the reality of the world - but you can't make them convert.
That's the Holy Spirit's job. We aren't called to convert; we are called to give the truth. As it is written:
Romans 10:14
10:14How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?
It's great to talk to people about Christianity, I have no problem with that. All we Christians can do is try , but we can't force it upon the unwilling heart. In the end I think people ultimately have to come to God of their own volition. We can give them the directions on how to get there, but we can't walk the path for them.
Yes, exactly. And, they're here at a Christian forum debating about it. So I think they enjoy the intellectual challenge, and so we go to work, doing what God has called us to do.
With this in mind... since you seem equate common human courtesy with placating/kinship/promoting, etc. how should we Christians treat/interact with those of differing beliefs, especially those who are devout in their particular faith and aren't interested in converting?
Well, this is a very good question. But it goes deeper than human courtesy. Because it's important to remember, they are on our turf, and they do want to debate. So that's what we do. This implies their interest.
And so we must stand for what we stand for. And I think that if anyone is going to profess Christ, it really is important to know what God requires of us, and get to know the Bible really well. It takes time; I know that. But when we find ourselves rebuking people for using the word and then agreeing constantly with those who don't worship the Lord on the other hand, I think we need to take a step back and find out what happened. And I think it starts with that-knowing God's will. And understanding debate tactics. None of their complaints about our using scripture are benign. There's a reason they're doing that. As you debate more you'll see it more clearly. Their objective isn't to stop hearing about Christ, because if that were the case, they wouldn't be here. They're trying to separate Christians from using the truth, because it simply can't be defeated.

Remember, they're trying to win a debate. That is their objective. So w don't give in to their clever attempts to tell us how to debate. They want us to lose, remember? So we simply smile and go on doing our job.
Ok, I don't believe I ever said that Jesus wasn't Savior and Lord, for one thing. I don't profess to know THE TRUTH - because I don't think we will know all of THE TRUTH...ever...until after death -
Well, then we have a problem here. This needs to be worked out. The Bible
is the truth, by virtue of the fact that it is God's word. And we have Christ's testimony in this word. Everything you know about Christ, you know from scripture. It's one of the most basic doctrines of Christianity. Ask the Lord for more faith if you need it. I'd be pleased to lift you up as well, and I'm sure the other Christians here would as well.
But if you struggle with faith sometimes, that's a normal part of the process of Christian growth. The first thing to do is get into the word more. And I can mention some good resources if you like.
and I don't plan on leading anyone anywhere proclaiming I know all there is to know about THE TRUTH. Jesus is Lord and Savior - he died on the cross for all of our sins, that's one truth I'm completely certain of. I can introduce them to Christianity, but it should be upon them to be active in learning about it, and not let someone else spoonfeed everything to them - which would be a foolish undertaking in some respects. As far as the accountability, refer to above response.
Well if you know Jesus is the Christ, then you can rest in the truth of the rest of His testimony. Yes, we do need to spoonfeed if that is necessary.
Prooftexts:
2 Timothy 3:16-17
3:16All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
3:17That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.
Also 1 Corinthians 3:2:
3:2I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.
and for sake of the 'game'

Ezekiel 33:9 states
"Nevertheless, if thou warn the wicked of his way to turn from it; if he do not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul."
So (as I read the passage) even God seems to recognize his followers can only do so much to bring people to him.
Very good-you looked to the word.
And the Holy Spirit will guide each of us as to what to say and when to stop. They are willing to discuss, so we meet that wish for them.
I'm not fighting against any spokesperson, I'm expressing my faith as how I've interpreted it so far in my life. By the way, Romans 14 is a very interesting chapter.
Again, this is great! You're looking to the word. Now let's take a look at that passage and see what it is refering to. Scripture is occasional. That means there is an occasion to which each part was written, and Romans 14 is no exception. What is the context? What was Paul addressing when he talked about the weak and strong? What was he trying solve and how?