I accept that argument for impressionable minds. But adults have a choice to permit the influence or pursue a different course. There’s a lot of things the world advocates. But I don’t go down the rabbit hole unless I’m interested. There must be something within me that the message appeals to. Otherwise, I ignore it.
Again - if you have the right spirit with that person - colour means nothing - my previous was white - I thought at times we would hit it off - but didn't - but it is about what type of people your surround yourself with in your personal time so not influenced - hence why I LOVED the men's meeting at my church - all the men looking just like me that are God fearing and meaning business! VERY UPLIFTING!
My stance is simple. It’s none of my business. And I’d never make it my business. But the same holds true for my affairs.
That is my stance too - didn't care when Serena Williams married that white man (though he is suspect with his Reddit side that ridicules his wife like no man's business) but anyway I was like HER CHOICE that is it! She is not stupid she knows what she is an where she comes from - the story of Mr Williams raising them facing pure racism - she married a person she felt comfortable with - not my business.
If you feel personally convicted on the subject and believe you should need to diversify your tastes that’s understandable.
Defo - cos truth is a lot of people of other races (don't care if they are Christian) believe in staying with their own for the most part. Won't admit it in public - but in private - it is an elephant in the room. So chasing a certain group of women that come from that (NOT ALL) but enough - that come from such a view point - THAT IS A SICKNESS. I have no business chasing that.
Yes you have white woman that are just about black men - but I have my reasons why they are like that (but won't say that here cos I will get removed from the forum).
I was reared in an environment where ladyship and etiquette were mainstays. I was expected to be poised and never forsake my station. Rap would violate all of that and then some. I have no interest in it.
Yeah - just the hypocrisy of that - I don't like it. No pass given to black women (that did and still does the same his WOMAN OF COLOUR wife in Kardashian does) but his alleged photogenic wife (with purchased body part to mimic a black woman) is treated as God on earth. To me Kanye seems like the type of guy that didn't get vagina when he was younger and was not allowed to leave his stoop on the streets of Chicago.
Men of color receive more flack for interracial marriages than women do. I’ve never had anyone question my preferences or look askance because my partner was Caucasian. I like what I like. As do most.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm depends who and what circles you listen into - I know many people black men that slate other black men for marrying outside their race.
But - what appeals to me atm (with white women) might not be the case if I live to 40.
Cos when you are young - fetish mind - from films etc etc etc.
One of my previous partners (the Islamic Turkish woman) I saw her a few years back.
And she looked old................................ (O.O) just i dunno older.............(she is 2 years younger than I am) but looked older =/.
Funny cos I remember my mother told me she watched an interview with one of the Wayans Brothers (the one that played SHORTY in the Scary Movie film) he was on a programme called THE VIEW and people were like WOW YOU LOOK EXACTLY THE SAME AS YOU DID 20 YEARS AGO! And he made a comment saying ****BLACK DON'T CRACK - UNLESS YOU SMOKE IT**** HAHA HAHA HAHA HAHA HAHA
And fact is black women age wonderfully - and when I think of LONGEVITY (not the here and now of a fetish woman) but LONGEVITY (I dunno if I told you but I went to midweek service with my mother last week and the Bishop fort she was my wife HAHA - i was like NO THAT IS MY MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!! Church was all shocked cos she looks super young) but anyway LONGEVITY of your partner! In all areas - spiritually but also attraction - cos if you are with your woman for a long time - when she hits 50 and still looks 29!! But a woman you are with now cos it gets the blood racing but when she hits 50 she looks 65.............................. or so............................hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.................Look for me - I just need to be VERY SENSIBLE when I SETTLE DOWN in future ON ALL LEVELS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BTW - that woman I told you about I was interested in church - I saw her - but never said anything to her - I realised I am far better than her and she can't do anything for me and will be a derailment in what I am trying to achieve right now.
In church I sat at the front so I wouldn't be distracted by her - I was about the word.
In future when I am where I am in life - I will ask my bishop about her and do it in the right way - not talking to women in my church like that - might as well go to a night club if I am gonna go church to chat to women like that.
I am far better than her and that.
I am young I have serious fields left to plough!