Definitely not. I'm pretty cautious in my dealings with the male gender. I hear enough from them to know some of the dos and do nots. But I was concerned after me, my flirtatious and well-endowed roommate, and my ex went home from dancing tonight.
Her feet were hurting so he offered to give her a ride back. Then he took off to drive home in much more haste than usual. I just worried about why he was so eager to get home. Nothing I can do for him. He has accountability partners already. I just said a little prayer.
I have really devoted a lot of time to praying for his sexual purity. Is it wrong of me to worry that he still probably struggles with inappropriate content or masturbation? Purity is a huge deal to me, but I've always felt that Christians should be more open about sex instead of ashamed, so I never was embarrassed to pray for him. He even finally got accountability partners for the first time after I had started praying for him, and I've noticed his eyes roaming much less. But maybe praying for him is too weird and I ought to stop?
Oh well, tmi, I'm sure. I don't want the discussion to get off topic. I was really just worried about the piggyback rides. My roommate's faith is important to her, but I worry about her sometimes because she is so naive. She's 19 but right now she's dating a 33 year old commercial pilot in Las Vegas, and she wanted to spend spring break alone with him in Florida. Yikes!
She's pretty hot so I'm always scared of these situations she gets into with guys, especially the ones who aren't Christians. She's like a little sister... I don't want her getting hurt or anything.