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Hi. I'm new here and joined mainly to ask this question.
I am caucasian, and I have a male friend who is African and is wanting to take our friendship to another level. We've known each other for about 1 1/2 years, and he has always made it clear, that he would be interested in a permanent relationship. I care about him a lot but am no where near "in love", but am considering a deeper relationship.
I'm not opposed to interracial marriages. I see no biblical basis to deny them. My question is this: How do you deal with your family? He has indicated that his family would be accepting, however, I know MY family would NOT be . Most of them are not Christians, and about 1/2 I would consider racist (my youngest brother indicated interest in joining the KKK ) In taking this relationship to any level beyond friendship would more than likely cost me my family. I LOVE my family despite their faults and obvious ignorance and I'm not sure I'm ready to give them up. I'm also fearful that my current feelings are a result of my reluctance to giving up my family, meaning, maybe I DO care more, but am afraid to allow myself to go there. He's been more than patient and understanding while I pray through this and seek advice.
I would appreciate ANY advice in this area, but especially from someone who has been in this position, and has made a success of an interracial marriage.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and may God grant you peace and joy beyond your greatest expectaions.
I am caucasian, and I have a male friend who is African and is wanting to take our friendship to another level. We've known each other for about 1 1/2 years, and he has always made it clear, that he would be interested in a permanent relationship. I care about him a lot but am no where near "in love", but am considering a deeper relationship.
I'm not opposed to interracial marriages. I see no biblical basis to deny them. My question is this: How do you deal with your family? He has indicated that his family would be accepting, however, I know MY family would NOT be . Most of them are not Christians, and about 1/2 I would consider racist (my youngest brother indicated interest in joining the KKK ) In taking this relationship to any level beyond friendship would more than likely cost me my family. I LOVE my family despite their faults and obvious ignorance and I'm not sure I'm ready to give them up. I'm also fearful that my current feelings are a result of my reluctance to giving up my family, meaning, maybe I DO care more, but am afraid to allow myself to go there. He's been more than patient and understanding while I pray through this and seek advice.
I would appreciate ANY advice in this area, but especially from someone who has been in this position, and has made a success of an interracial marriage.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and may God grant you peace and joy beyond your greatest expectaions.