politically
My social views are actually very close to libertarian I strongly believe that if an action does not actively harm another person, and/or is a consensual activity the individual should be allowed to do it. Given my druthers, I would get rid of all drug laws and legalize the use of all drugs (with the caveat that if you injure or kill someone, or damage their property while under the use of drugs, you WILL be prosecuted to the full extent of the law and you may NOT use the fact that you were intoxicated as a mitigating circumstance). I would set the age of majority for consensual sex at the age of 15 or 16, and legalize all consensual sex between adults. Many (if not most) of the laws regulating individual behavior are not enforceable so lets get rid of those kinds of laws and focus our resources on real criminals, e.g., burglars, rapists, murderers, etc.
My economic views are a mixture of fiscal conservatism and re-allocation of resources. I think running a half-trillion dollar deficit and a seven trillion dollar national debt is criminal, if not treasonous. I would stop ALL pork-barrel spending, period; and mandate that we must have a balanced budget or (preferably) a surplus, including setting aside five percent of each years national income into a rainy day fund.
I would reorganize our information-gathering and judicial resources (the CIA, FBI, and the NSA) so that they fall into one group with information-sharing capability; cut defense spending while streamlining projects so far more could be done (including raising the salaries of or troops) using far less money; and reallocate spending to take care of health coverage for all people, education through college for those who want it (with vocational educational training for those who are not interested in going to college), affordable child care for working families, establishment of a living wage, and a basic set of social services so people who truly need help can get that help.
I would establish legally-binding civil unions for all couples, gay and straight; and if the churches wanted to solemnize the relationship they would be free to do so however they chose to do it. Frankly, I dont believe the church has any legitimate business establishing the legitimacy of relationships for the state; and I dont believe that Scripture supports the notion that the church should be working as an agent of the state to determine which marriages are legitimate and which are not.
biblically (non-literal/Bible fallible)
I take Scripture very seriously, and I believe that Scripture is extremely useful (and relevant) -- but I am emphatically NOT a literalist. I believe that when Scripture is taken literally, the Bible begins to contradict itself right and left which means that Scripture must be taken in the social, historical, political, linguistic, and religious context of the time in which it was written, including taking into account any biases which the particular author(s) may have had.
theologically (gay acts okay/universalism)
Gay acts are OK. Straight acts are OK. The Book of Acts is OK. A sharp axe is OK (as long as youre careful).
Frankly, I would LOVE for the church to get off of its voyeuristic obsession with who is sleeping with whom, and who is doing what with whom and move back into a domain of being an agent of Christ to feed the hungry, giving water to the thirsty, caring for the stranger, clothing the naked, and visiting the sick. I would LOVE to see the church cultivating true attitudes of love in its members not the fake, love the sinner but hate the sin, but truly accepting each person as a part of Gods creation and being created in the image of God. Id love to see the church cultivating love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in its members and maybe we would have fewer genocides such as those in Serbia, Croatia and Kosovo - or in Rwanda.
As to who is worthy to go to Heaven -- none of us is worthy and as far as who makes it and who doesnt: Im leaving that decision up to God, where that decision rightly belongs.
church politics (pro-female ministers/active gay ministers)
Quite frankly, I have way fewer problems with female ministers or gay ministers than I have with megachurches complete with banks, fast food restaurants, ATMs, and television stations which are used by pastors to beg for more and more money for their lavish and decadent lifestyles! Id much rather have a female minister or a gay minister who actually cared for, and effectively pastored his/her congregation that I would a money-grubbing, corrupt, control freak who uses God so he/she could grow even more rich and powerful!
attitude (love, love, unconditional love. non-judgemental)
Oh, but that we could have fewer churches like Fred Phelps Westboro Baptist Church or Greg Dixons Indianapolis Baptist Temple and more churches which fostered Christians who were truly loving, joyful, peace-loving, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and self-controlled!
worship (Christian Rock ? happy clappy)
To each his/her own. The fact that I like Guillaume de Machaut or Gilles Binchois (14th century) doesnt mean that someone shouldnt listen to Christian Rock or praise bands in church!
Likewise, the fact that Im a Lutheran doesnt mean that someone shouldnt be a Baptist, or a Quaker, or a Catholic!