I totally get where you are coming from, but, and I don't even necessarily like this answer, but when you are God, you get to make the rules. So...God hates sin, cannot have anything to do with it. But He made it pretty easy to deal with, for mankind anyway, NOT His Son. Christ did the hard part, he became the death and blood offering that God requires to pay for sin. As mankind, we merely need to have FAITH that Christ is who He is and believe He did what He did. When we stand before God, He will not have a scale, weighing our good actions against our bad, he will look into our hearts and say either, You had faith in my son...or you didn't. There are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many other issues that I even question. But when you get RIGHT down to it, God provided such a gracious way for us to escape hell...