Perhaps, but I am not one of them. And you may not choose your orientation, but you can fight it. And some people do, in both directions.
Sure, that's fair enough. But as far as I know, the original post that we are ultimately discussing, about choice, was not addressed specifically at you
Yes it is your business, but just so you know it's not consistant with Scripture, so I'm not going to recognize your calling God a female.
Well firstly, I don't think it says anywhere in the Bible that you must refer to God as "he". Many Christians believe she is sexless. (I can't imagine you think God has a penis.)
Secondly, I'm not calling God a female. I'm merely referring to her by the feminine pronoun. Would you say that God is a male?
And thirdly, what do you mean "recognise"? I'm not asking for your blessing; why would I? But can you maybe accept that some people find it helpful to picture God in different ways from the way you do?
Do you think God is offended that I use the feminine pronoun for her?
You are entitled to that opinion. We all get angry at God sometimes. I got extremely angry at Him when my first wife died for no apparent reason. I got angry at him when I got downsized out of the Air Force. We can ask "why?" all we want, but He is not obligated to answer. Sometimes we figure it out, sometimes we don't.
Why isn't she obliged to answer? She made humanity; it's her responsibility to look after it properly.
When Israel sank into deep idolatry in the OT, God sent them into Babylonian exile. I would say that was pretty harmful.
Well, then it seems to be a poor example of something which is wrong that isn't harmful, doesn't it?

I believe that's why you mentioned it initially.
I did not say I didn't trust them. I would treat and trust them just like I would any other.
I know you didn't. All I was saying was firstly that I didn't accuse you of mistrusting them, and secondly that merely knowing gay people doesn't mean you trust them. That's all.
You are maybe a small bit defensive, perhaps unnecessarily so. There's no need. I try not to make assumptions about people.