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I was Kidnapped: Trigger Warning

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I was kidnapped for over 6 months by a woman who said she was my friend. I met her online. She made me tell my family that we were living together as roommates but she was actually holding me there against my will. She raped me and force fed me every day. She also tortured me. I am traumatized by what happened to me and feel worthless and used. I self harm sometimes because of it. I did not go to the police because I cant prove it happened to me. I am traumatized and scared of her hurting me again. I had thought she was my friend.
 
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Wow. I am so sorry you went through that. That's horrible...I don't even know where to begin....expect to go to the police because she will strike again and to get therapy for yourself.

I'm sorry that happened.
 
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Wow. I am so sorry you went through that. That's horrible...I don't even know where to begin....expect to go to the police because she will strike again and to get therapy for yourself.

I'm sorry that happened.
Thank you for your words. I am hoping she wont bother me again but I do think I need to get therapy.
 
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Thank you for your words. I am hoping she wont bother me again but I do think I need to get therapy.
This defintely makes me think twice about people online. I was wondering what did she say to make u lower your guard? How did she trick you ?(if u don't mind saying)
 
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This defintely makes me think twice about people online. I was wondering what did she say to make u lower your guard? How did she trick you ?(if u don't mind saying)

No worries. She did trick me. She acted as if she really cared about me and was protective of me. She acted like she loved me as a friend. It is actually very scary what happened and I am still traumatized about it. She made it seem like she would protect me and look after me but she was being deceitful.
 
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No worries. She did trick me. She acted as if she really cared about me and was protective of me. She acted like she loved me as a friend. It is actually very scary what happened and I am still traumatized about it. She made it seem like she would protect me and look after me but she was being deceitful.
I suggest going to the police and reporting it. At the very least if she bothers you again they will have a record of your past statement. If you should end up missing they would have lead as to where you may be and with whom.
 
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I suggest going to the police and reporting it. At the very least if she bothers you again they will have a record of your past statement. If you should end up missing they would have lead as to where you may be and with whom.

Thank you for saying this Hank, you are right
 
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I was kidnapped for over 6 months by a woman who said she was my friend. I met her online. She made me tell my family that we were living together as roommates but she was actually holding me there against my will. She raped me and force fed me every day. She also tortured me. I am traumatized by what happened to me and feel worthless and used. I self harm sometimes because of it. I did not go to the police because I cant prove it happened to me. I am traumatized and scared of her hurting me again. I had thought she was my friend.
So what's going on with you now Bluerose31?
Have you ever heard of Stockholm Syndrome?
 
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So what's going on with you now Bluerose31?
Have you ever heard of Stockholm Syndrome?
I have heard of Stockholm Syndrome. I feel I have it. I have just come back from a trip with my family but I did not have a good time. I have chronic pain and endured that during the trip. It has been hard to think God loves me with all I have experienced in life but I try to believe he does.
 
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