MournfulWatcher
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- Feb 15, 2016
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I understand. I am just saying that telling someone to go outside more and socialize doesn't always help with the getting into a relationship part. There is a reason men complain about getting friend-zoned too often and I think its because they follow your directions and don't make it clear that they are looking for a relationship. Thus they end up being kind of the buddy of everyone until they actually change it up and be more aggressive in their approach.
And about the clubs, yes that's absolutely true. When I was in my backslidden years I can absolute attest to the fact that alcohol makes it 500% easier to approach.
I'm curious as to why you seem so opposed to him socializing to meet women. How else do you meet women? That's literally the only way you can get into a relationship.
I'm not saying he shouldn't make his intentions clear, I'm saying that becoming friends with someone first is how any relationship starts, and keeping that in mind can take some of the pressure off since he seemed anxious about it in his post.
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