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What is the Christ Like way to handle a woman who keeps playing games with me such as, they say they're going to get ahold of me and then they just cold shoulder me?
I agree.... you could give her a last chance and tell her you are going to a movie or out to eat and invite her and if she shows up then maybe you have a chance but if not then move on as likely the best you will be to her is a simp.
 
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What is the Christ Like way to handle a woman who keeps playing games with me such as, they say they're going to get ahold of me and then they just cold shoulder me?
While not directly related to your situation, Jesus did say:

"And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet." Matthew 10:14
 
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*Edit* Lord willing tomorrow is Wednesday and we have bible study I'll ask her if she'd like to go and then grab a bite to eat. And if it's a no go I'll wait on the Lord. Thank you Brethren for your Council.
 
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What is the Christ Like way to handle a woman who keeps playing games with me such as, they say they're going to get ahold of me and then they just cold shoulder me?
Maybe she's very busy. Say to her if she's not interested say so and you can move on.
 
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I'm almost beginning to think maybe she doesn't have permission by God The Father Yahweh, God The Son Christ Jesus Messiah Yeshua, and God The Holy Spirit Ruach Ha Kodesh to be in a dating relationship with me... ✝️✝️. Just so that there's not a violation of his word taking place...
 
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I'm almost beginning to think maybe she doesn't have permission by God The Father Yahweh, God The Son Christ Jesus Messiah Yeshua, and God The Holy Spirit Ruach Ha Kodesh to be in a dating relationship with me... ✝️✝️. Just so that there's not a violation of his word taking place...
That, or she's not interested. Sorry to have to say that, but it happens.
 
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That, or she's not interested. Sorry to have to say that, but it happens.
Will just wait on the Lord and see. He can do whatever he wants according to his will and purpose. I'm not one to force myself upon a person anymore Christ changed that about me.
 
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What is the Christ Like way to handle a woman who keeps playing games with me such as, they say they're going to get ahold of me and then they just cold shoulder me?

Leave her alone. She's not playing games, she's placating you.
 
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Leave her alone. She's not playing games, she's placating you.
Yup, she's not God's will for my life I asked Jesus this morning in prayer if she even liked me and he said no. How foolish and even narcissistic I was in the matter but Adonai Elohim has rescued me and refreshed me and given me his wisdom and set me back on solid ground. Praise Adonai Elohim in all three persons for his faithfulness ⚜️✝️✝️❤️‍❤️‍
 
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