RaymondG
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You seem to be mixing mans wisdom with God's, and they dont mix well. The woman with the issue of blood didnt mix. She let the Dr do all that they could do and spent all her money first.....and then she tried God. It sounds like you would have told her to go to Jesus while continuing to spend money and go to the Dr.Yes, this is great methodology.
For the purpose of my posts, I didn't touch the inappropriate content issue because it's an entirely different segment (issue) at the moment. The affair is the house burning down and the inappropriate content is the patio furniture. It is conflated a bit in the OP's mind but the inappropriate content and her self image is the least of her worries at this moment. Her self image is contributing to a building overall instinct, but it is smoke and not the fire.
This is where the rubber meets the road. Conflating everything into a giant hazy smoke ball instead of segmenting them out confuses a person into not facing towards the actual fire ==> which is that certain behaviors, segmented out, are completely unacceptable (the fire).
In a sense, conflating things is putting the blinders on. Segmenting them provides a clearer view.
And, encouraging a person to wait until the smoke clears to see what's left ("wait and pray") disempowers them from taking productive action to identify or segment those certain behaviors that are unacceptable - and then to get out the hoses to put the fire out.
In your case, that resulted in a justifiable divorce, a divorce that Scripture gave you every right to proceed with. In fact, if you hadn't, you'd probably be reliving the same quagmire day to day, and have experienced many more discovery days. Sometimes a divorce is the definition of success.
At certain moments, waiting and praying is a good thing - such as after chemo has been applied and you are prayerfully waiting to see if it eradicated the cancer. However, waiting and praying without taking chemo is likely the certain death of the patient.
I suspect that the reason you are successful at times is because you can convince people of wrong doing. And what a man thinks in his heart, so is he. When you convince someone to believe in something....it will eventually happen.....they can even be totally convinced (it becomes true to them) even when it is physically false.
I see nothing wrong with this. But this is a christian site....so you have to expect to see some spiritual answers......which arent just a cloak from man's wisdom to follow.
All who ask receives, says the bible......If you have not, it is because you Asked not........even if you thought you did ask.... Asking the Father in Heaven, is different from asking an earthly father. And the "wait and pray," you mention, is the type that you interpreted in your mind....and therefore fails.. But it could not have been the truth of the Bible....cause Jesus never fails.
Again, trust in the Dr...if it fails or you get worse.....Try Jesus.
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