I need a girlfriend ...

[RichardT]

What a weird topic of discussion lol .... Well , Im a lonely guy. I prayed to Jesus for a girlfriend but nothing is happening yet... Do you guys have any christian tips on how I can get a grilfriend through christ ?

I am serious -_- ...

 

[Theresasjourney]

Just keep praying and being open...
do you attend any Christian youth groups..
I know for your age girlfriends are important....but relationshipe at that age are very challenging.
The best advice I gave my son was don't strive to have 'girlfriends' but strive to be 'friends' with girls....they really need guys they can count on and trust feel safe with...with no ties or expectations..just hang out and have fun.
And he has so many 'girl-friends' who really appreciate him as a friend...
Coming from a different perspective might help....and open doors to having many friends and not feel lonely....risk getting involved in healthy youth activities....;o) and be a friend..a good safe trustworthy friend...;o)

 

[GodsJewel]

You don't need a girlfriend as bad as you think you do. Jesus can fill the void of loneliness far greater than any girlfriend could. Spend more time with Jesus.

 

[RichardT]

You don't need a girlfriend as bad as you think you do. Jesus can fill the void of loneliness far greater than any girlfriend could. Spend more time with Jesus.

im also full of hormones ... What can I do ?!

 

[Reformationist]

What a weird topic of discussion lol .... Well , Im a lonely guy. I prayed to Jesus for a girlfriend but nothing is happening yet... Do you guys have any christian tips on how I can get a grilfriend through christ ?

I am serious -_- ...

Why do you want a girlfriend? You say you are a "lonely guy" but, unless you're specifically referring to romantic companionship, I fail to see why think the cure for your loneliness is a girlfriend.

Instead of asking us for how to get a girlfriend, maybe you can clarify why you want a girlfriend.

God bless

 

[RichardT]

Why do you want a girlfriend? You say you are a "lonely guy" but, unless you're specifically referring to romantic companionship, I fail to see why think the cure for your loneliness is a girlfriend.

Instead of asking us for how to get a girlfriend, maybe you can clarify why you want a girlfriend.

God bless

Im a 15 year old guy giving up on his porn addiction ...... This is why I need a girlfriend -_- ..

Do you not know how hard it is to give up on porn like that at my age ? And to live ?

 

[Reformationist]

im also full of hormones ... What can I do ?!

Of course you are. You are designed that way. Unfortunately, those hormones don't wait until marriage to start manifesting themselves. Either way, it is something that all people deal with, some more than others. It is a struggle and anyone who tells you otherwise is either mental or lying. Anyway, part of our being conformed to the image of Christ is learning to put off the desires of our flesh, which is what you seem to be experiencing, in favor of what God says we should pursue. Seek ye first the Kingdom of God my young friend. God will bring you what you need in your life. Seek to be blessed of God with a wife, at the appropriate age, by seeking to be godly. Then, when you and a woman acknowledge a mutual attraction, it will be based on the proper foundation.

God bless

 

[RichardT]

Of course you are. You are designed that way. Unfortunately, those hormones don't wait until marriage to start manifesting themselves. Either way, it is something that all people deal with, some more than others. It is a struggle and anyone who tells you otherwise is either mental or lying. Anyway, part of our being conformed to the image of Christ is learning to put off the desires of our flesh, which is what you seem to be experiencing, in favor of what God says we should pursue. Seek ye first the Kingdom of God my young friend. God will bring you what you need in your life. Seek to be blessed of God with a wife, at the appropriate age, by seeking to be godly. Then, when you and a woman acknowledge a mutual attraction, it will be based on the proper foundation.

God bless

I have decided to give up porn and my masturbating habbits ! wow ... Isin't that great ? I NEED YOUR HELP THOHGH .... I will delete all my porn, and go straight for the calling of Jesus !

 

[Reformationist]

Im a 15 year old guy giving up on his porn addiction ...... This is why I need a girlfriend -_- ..

Do you not know how hard it is to give up on porn like that at my age ? And to live ?

Believe me, I know what it is like to be a walking hormone. I'm 32. Not 132. Anyway, you have to understand that what you're looking for is not so much a godly woman whom God has gifted you with as a more acceptable outlet for your lustful feelings. As I said (and I know it's easier said than done), seek first to be conformed to the image of Christ. It is He who will grace you with that anyway.

God bless

 

[RichardT]

Believe me, I know what it is like to be a walking hormone. I'm 32. Not 132. Anyway, you have to understand that what you're looking for is not so much a godly woman whom God has gifted you with as a more acceptable outlet for your lustful feelings. As I said (and I know it's easier said than done), seek first to be conformed to the image of Christ. It is He who will grace you with that anyway.

God bless

I HAVE JUST NOW DELETED 20 GB OF PORN ON MY COMPUTER AND HAVE TAKEN UP MY CROSS TO FOLLOW THE CALLING OF JESUS.

For some reason , I feel as if Jesus is calling me to do something great right now.... Can anyone explain this to me ?

Wow , I have just escaped my lust... I feel great !

 

[Reformationist]

I have decided to give up porn and my masturbating habbits ! wow ... Isin't that great ? I NEED YOUR HELP THOHGH .... I will delete all my porn, and go straight for the calling of Jesus !

I encourage you to do just that. However, remember, you are a work in progress. Don't be discouraged by failure, for it is not a lack of failure that marks a godly person. It is desiring to be like Christ and acknowledging in godly sorrow those times when we are not. Those who think they don't struggle with the sins you struggle with either struggle with other sins or they are deluded.

Just keep striving to be righteous, for the Lord is righteous. Ask for His help. You'll need it.

God bless

 

[RichardT]

I encourage you to do just that. However, remember, you are a work in progress. Don't be discouraged by failure, for it is not a lack of failure that marks a godly person. It is desiring to be like Christ and acknowledging in godly sorrow those times when we are not. Those who think they don't struggle with the sins you struggle with either struggle with other sins or they are deluded.

Just keep striving to be righteous, for the Lord is righteous. Ask for His help. You'll need it.

God bless

I HAVE JUST DELETED ALL MY PORN VIDS AND IMAGES. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME TO CONTINUE ON THIS PATH. I HAVE TAKEN UP THE CROSS OF JESUS AND DECIDED TO FOLLOW HIM. HE IS WORTHY.

 

[RichardT]

I AM COMPLETELY SERIOUS WHEN I SAY THAT I NEED YOU TO PRAY FOR ME. WHAT I JUST DID IS SOMETHING THAT I WOULD NEVER NORMALLY DO. I AM PRAYING TO JESUS OUR LORD AS WE SPEAK.

 

[RichardT]

the mods can delete this thread now... I have posted another one in the porn addiction forum

 

[linssue55]

What a weird topic of discussion lol .... Well , Im a lonely guy. I prayed to Jesus for a girlfriend but nothing is happening yet... Do you guys have any christian tips on how I can get a grilfriend through christ ?

I am serious -_- ...

Yes........Relax! The Lord will not give you one until you RELAX and TRUST in Him. When you do it will be the right one. Romans 8:28.........AND be yourself.

 

[Reformationist]

I HAVE JUST NOW DELETED 20 GB OF PORN ON MY COMPUTER AND HAVE TAKEN UP MY CROSS TO FOLLOW THE CALLING OF JESUS.

For some reason , I feel as if Jesus is calling me to do something great right now.... Can anyone explain this to me ?

Wow , I have just escaped my lust... I feel great !

Congratulations and, as I said, remember that success is measured in not only how well you obey Jesus but in how you supplicate yourself and your desires to Him when you do not obey. The biggest part of the battle against sin is that you never give up and repent when you sin against the Lord.

God bless

 

[Sketcher]

Good. However the danger of getting a girlfriend right now is that you may try and act out some of those fantasies you learned from the porn. You need to learn how to respect a woman before you are worthy to have one. I would recommend going for Christian friends of both genders, where both are intentionally respecting the other rather than just being date-hungry beasts.

Have you read "Every Young Man's Battle"? If not, read it. There's more stuff God needs to deal with yet.

 

[flyingsum0]

Girlsfriends are really expensive ...lol jk

Seriously relationships are one of those things in life bro, sometimes the harder the look, the less you find...let things happen..beleive in the Lord and all things will come together.

Glod Bless you bro

 

[knownbeforetime]

Adding to the consensus...

Your 15 and coming off a porn addiction... It would be dangerous to seek a romantic relationship right now. Make friends on both sides of the gender aisle and take your mind OFF any lustful desies. Get involved in church and youth group.

Oh yes... and PRAYER!

 

[Athanasian Creed]

Good. However the danger of getting a girlfriend right now is that you may try and act out some of those fantasies you learned from the porn. You need to learn how to respect a woman before you are worthy to have one. I would recommend going for Christian friends of both genders, where both are intentionally respecting the other rather than just being date-hungry beasts.

Have you read "Every Young Man's Battle"? If not, read it. There's more stuff God needs to deal with yet.

Excellent post - couldn't have said it better !!


Ray