(((((Melinda))))) and a BIG BIG welcome to CF, I thank you so much for your advice my dear sweet loving sister.
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I feel worthless...
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...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
Dear Flower, you are more important than you realise. I am sending you loving thoughts. Love, xTx
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Sister in Christ you are so hard on yourself but you do so much to help others. you have a very special place in heaven.
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...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
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Thank you so much my dear sweet loving sister.MY dear sweet loving brother. It should be ME not you dying of cancer. I feel that God is being unfair. You have a wonderful place in this world, I WISH I could take your place so badly. I am so teared up to hear that you are dying. Thank you for your kind words. Learning to love myself is a lot harder than it sounds, when you had no family who showed how to love one self cause they didn't love themseves. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVING WORDS, YOU ARE A HUGE BLESSING dear brother REALLY you are. ((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))) I will miss you so much, who knows maybe there will be a maricle and God will let me take your place. I am so very saddened at this news.
Thank you dear brother.
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You are an angel, aflower4God, never forget that. You are beautiful and loved. We all love you here. Please don't feel bad about yourself. You said you haven't learned to love yourself? Its easy. Let it go. Let all your hurts go. The people who hurt you didn't know any better, and if they did, you are better off without them. You are loved by God. Don't let yourself be consumed by so many worries. Just let it go. You are a bright, beautiful, amazing lady. I want to build up your confidence so badly. You are a precious child of God, you know that? God loves you!! Rejoice in that! You may not feel that love, but if you would quiet yourself like a child and just let all these worrying thoughts flow by...God would reach your heart. He loves you and is going to take good care of you. DON'T WORRY!
I wanted to talk to you in private, but you disabled your PM's.
I wanted to talk to you in private, but you disabled your PM's.
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Flower, you have got to be one of the kindest and gentlest people I have met on this forum. Your heart is so sincere and you really love the Lord as well as others. I really mean that. I am blessed to call you my sister in Christ and my friend.
I am praying for you!
I am praying for you!
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Thank you so much my dear sweet loving brother. ((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))) I will enable my PM's so we can talk.
God bless you and LOTS of love to you 'sAwe thank you so much my dear sweet loving sister. You are so very sweet as well, you like a mother hen on here even though you are younger than me, but you and Sister Criada are always so kind and loving to everyone. Very fair and understanding as well. That is awesome.
God bless you as well sweet sister.
Much love to you both!
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Love you too sweet sister, you are a huge blessing to me.BIG THANK YOU and a BIG HUGS to you dear brother.
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you are not worthless and no one should ever make you feel that way. you are a beautiful person inside and out.
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...I am in the way here on this earth. I hate me. I have no family (they disowned me about 3 years ago), I have social phobia and I can't keep male friends. I really don't want to be here, I have been begging God to allow me to go home cause I feel that I am so worthless. As you can see in my sig the only male who cares for me is my guardian angel and I am 38 years old too.
I have always had a low selfesteme I was never taught the right way to cope and my mother was so into looks is everything and my father told me that I was boring a lot of times that I need to become more interesting.
I blame me for everything especially when people leave me out or gang up on me. I think it is me me me me all the time.
I hate me.
I just wanted to get my feelings out about my self esteme., thanks for listening.
hi i just want to let you know i can relate to how hard things must be for you right now.
because i had diff yet similiar exp....
many of my problems are still work in progress.
but God has always been there for me eventhough i do not deserve any of it, but maybe that is grace and love from our Heavenly Father is all about, He loves us simply because we are His beloved child, not because we earned it.
people may let you down, but He NEVER WILL.
i remember there was time when my life was at rock bottom ( i am slowly getting out of that place), and one day i was at the farewell party for this Christian. And her parting gesture was to give me a huge hug, and whispered in my ear " doesnt matter what happens, you need to have faith in Jesus"
at the time i though to myself " not likely". but you know what, she was right.
I'll pray for you....
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You are a good person, Flower. You always reached out to me, so now I'm reaching out to you
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