Saturday afternoon I got a new pair of glasses in the mail; my boyfriend was messing around and wanted me to put them on him; I was feeling a little annoyed at the idea but I did it anyway. But as I was doing it, I chose to poke him in the eye with the temple of the glasses. He just said "don't poke me in the eye" and then a second later was back to goofing off.
But I just felt HORRIBLE that I had deliberately done that to him. I asked him later how his eye was, and he said he had forgotten all about it.
But I just feel this need to confess to him that I had done it on purpose, that it wasn't an accident. That, and the incident with his thumb. In both instances, he wasn't bothered at all really. But I feel like if he were to know that I had done these actions deliberately, then he would break up with me.
And I feel as though, by not telling him, I am being dishonest with him. As though he doesn't have a complete picture of who I truly am.
At the same time, I feel that it might not be smart to bring this up now, and confess to him, because it might start a cycle of doubt and confessing and fear about my actions ("did I do THIS on purpose?") Or to have have him not trust me, even though I absolutely feel awful about what I did, and that I DON'T want to be doing these things.
I think I'm being obsessive, but at the same time, I don't know if I should come clean about these two events.
But I just felt HORRIBLE that I had deliberately done that to him. I asked him later how his eye was, and he said he had forgotten all about it.
But I just feel this need to confess to him that I had done it on purpose, that it wasn't an accident. That, and the incident with his thumb. In both instances, he wasn't bothered at all really. But I feel like if he were to know that I had done these actions deliberately, then he would break up with me.
And I feel as though, by not telling him, I am being dishonest with him. As though he doesn't have a complete picture of who I truly am.
At the same time, I feel that it might not be smart to bring this up now, and confess to him, because it might start a cycle of doubt and confessing and fear about my actions ("did I do THIS on purpose?") Or to have have him not trust me, even though I absolutely feel awful about what I did, and that I DON'T want to be doing these things.
I think I'm being obsessive, but at the same time, I don't know if I should come clean about these two events.