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I have been married 7 years. When I first got married my husband was working for a man that paid him under the table and sometimes not at all. I told him if we are going to get married , he would have to quit that job because the man treated him with no respect. He went to work for a more established company and we got married. Shortly after we got married I found his info on a gay website, he denied he created the account. Before that I had found an inappropriate toy in his closet along with inappropriate content, which supposed belonged to another family member as he was living with his parents at the time. After we got married they started taking child support out , for a child he says he never knew about. I worked two shifts a day and we scrimped and saved and we still were suffering due to this child support. Well years later he says his family knew about the child all along. Mind you when he found out about this child he or she was 12. He just pays the support and has no desire whatsoever to find the child. We have moved 7 times in seven years because nothing is ever good enough for him. We are always behind on the bills and he makes 60,000 a year. Now he has two houses being foreclosed on and he will have to declare bankruptcy. I also found uncountable adult websites with all his information looking for sex. I do love him , but I just do not know if I can stay married to him. We are going to go to marriage counseling. Any advice on how to proceed, I know if I just go back, it will end up being the same thing. We are seperated. What would you do if you were me ?