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I asked this in request for Christian advice but didn't really get a clear answer...can I as a man, have long hair??? Or is it a sin??

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Give a definition of long hair. Use any form of measurement you want, inches, centimeters, fractions of a cubit, I don't care. Just provide an objective definition of long hair.

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Looking like a woman.
 
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There's balance. I imagine that being OCD or having anxiety doesn't necessarily mean that a faith related question is related to the mental illness.
My son has OCD. It compels him to worry about minutia and, ultimately, takes his eyes off of Jesus.
Without OCD, one might receive wise advice, apply it and get a sense of resolution.
With OCD --if the answer is satisfactory at all-- the person is just driven to the next question on their laundry list of anxieties, never finding that sense of peace they were seeking. It is better to set aside their possible ("leaf" problem) errors and concentrate on the "root" problem. Then, they can deal with any leaf problems might remain unresolved.
 
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Looking like a woman.

This actually leaves me with far more questions than it does provide any meaningful answer.

So this picture of George Harrison would not, in your definition, constitute a man having long hair? woman.

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Seeing someone dressed counter to God's will, or otherwise countering God's will, is enough for a righteous judgement to be made.

How does one dress according to God's will?

Are there certain fabric types, or clothing styles that God has decreed good, and some He has decreed wrong?

As a man, am I allowed to wear bifurcated leg coverings--usually known as trousers? Are trousers permitted for men to wear? And how would you know?

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This actually leaves me with far more questions than it does provide any meaningful answer.

So this picture of George Harrison would not, in your definition, constitute a man having long hair? woman.

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-CryptoLutheran
It makes me think he wants to be like a woman.
At the very least, he is unaware of what Paul says about long hair on a man.
 
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How does one dress according to God's will?
Modestly: in accord with NT scripture.
Are there certain fabric types, or clothing styles that God has decreed good, and some He has decreed wrong?
Fabrics...only immodestly sheer stuff would be un-Christin to wear in public.
Styles that are immodest would never be worn by holy people.
As a man, am I allowed to wear bifurcated leg coverings--usually known as trousers? Are trousers permitted for men to wear? And how would you know?
If they are not immodest, they are OK.
I know because I was been given the gift of the Holy Ghost, after my repentance from sin.
 
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Looking like a woman.
This I tend to agree with. As do most theologians. It isn't hair so much as it is looking like your gender. If you look feminine with long hair? It's too long. If you're a woman who looks masculine, your hair is too short. That seems to be what I'm thinking is the idea of this verse.
 
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It makes me think he wants to be like a woman.
At the very least, he is unaware of what Paul says about long hair on a man.

I asked you to offer a definition of long hair, you answered "looks like a woman". I offered a picture of a man, that looks like a man, but arguably could have long hair; and your response to that is that he wants to be a woman or doesn't know what Paul said about long hair.

Which makes me think that if pressed further we're going to find ourselves in a loops:

What is long hair?
Looking like a woman.

What looks like a woman?
Having long hair.

So let's try again from the top.

Can you provide an objective definition of long hair?

-CryptoLutheran
 
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Modestly: in accord with NT scripture.

Fabrics...only immodestly sheer stuff would be un-Christin to wear in public.
Styles that are immodest would never be worn by holy people.

If they are not immodest, they are OK.

Is it modest for men to wear trousers?

I know because I was been given the gift of the Holy Ghost, after my repentance from sin.

Every Christian has received the gift of the Holy Spirit by the grace of God through the means of His Word and Sacraments. So that's non-sequitur. You aren't any more spiritual, holy, or righteous than the rest of us sinners here on Christian Forums.

If you say otherwise, well, you're more than welcome to call your turds art, but it still flushes the same as everyone else's.

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This I tend to agree with. As do most theologians. It isn't hair so much as it is looking like your gender. If you look feminine with long hair? It's too long. If you're a woman who looks masculine, your hair is too short. That seems to be what I'm thinking is the idea of this verse.
At its root (no pun intended) short hair is man's way of representing God...who was in no wise feminine.
Long hair is a woman's protection, and her glory.
Men who have long hair have abdicated their representation of God, and opted for the glory given a woman.
 
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I asked you to offer a definition of long hair, you answered "looks like a woman". I offered a picture of a man, that looks like a man, but arguably could have long hair; and your response to that is that he wants to be a woman or doesn't know what Paul said about long hair.

Which makes me think that if pressed further we're going to find ourselves in a loops:

What is long hair?
Looking like a woman.

What looks like a woman?
Having long hair.

So let's try again from the top.

Can you provide an objective definition of long hair?

-CryptoLutheran
Certainly.
Long hair is that which makes one look like a woman.
 
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Is it modest for men to wear trousersI
I believe I have already answered yes to that question, if the pants are not immodest.
Some versions of pants are immodest.
Every Christian has received the gift of the Holy Spirit by the grace of God through the means of His Word and Sacraments. So that's non-sequitur. You aren't any more spiritual, holy, or righteous than the rest of us sinners here on Christian Forums.
I am not a sinner.
To discuss that further, we will have to use IM.
If you say otherwise, well, you're more than welcome to call your turds art, but it still flushes the same as everyone else's.
It is written..."Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
10 In this the children of God are manifest,..." (1 John 3:9-10)
 
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I believe I have already answered yes to that question, if the pants are not immodest.
Some versions of pants are immodest.

You haven't explained why though.

I am not a sinner.
To discuss that further, we will have to use IM.

It is written..."Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
10 In this the children of God are manifest,..." (1 John 3:9-10)

I'm not here to entertain your delusion.

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It makes me think he wants to be like a woman.
At the very least, he is unaware of what Paul says about long hair on a man.
Seems to me that if he wanted to look like a woman, he'd shave off that beard and mustache.

If you think he looks like a woman...you should get out more.
 
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I believe I have already answered yes to that question, if the pants are not immodest.
Some versions of pants are immodest.
And some versions of long hair do not make men look like women.
I am not a sinner. To discuss that further, we will have to use IM.

It is written..."Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
10 In this the children of God are manifest,..." (1 John 3:9-10)
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. (1 John 1:8)
 
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And some versions of long hair do not make men look like women.
Yeah, if they are not long enough to be confused for a woman.
If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. (1 John 1:8)
We will have to go to IM to discuss that forbidden topic.
 
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