A sexual assault crime, legally, can be as simple as unwanted touching. It is not a crime until it already has happened. A community needs to rally around people who suspect they are about to be attacked.
Most rape victims do not want to report the crime immediately after it happens. Discouraging a person from talking about their concerns reinforces this resistance to reporting criminals.
The Acquaintance Rapist
Unfortunately, one cannot identify an acquaintance rapist on the basis of his appearance. He could be anyone, from a classmate, a science laboratory partner, a boyfriend, or just the nice guy that lives in the apartment next door.
While acquaintance rapist cannot be identified by their appearance, they do engage in certain behaviors in order to win the confidence and trust of their victims. The primary goal of the acquaintance rapist is to increase the victim's vulnerability. He is highly manipulative ... .
The acquaintance rapists also significantly increase the victim's vulnerability by manipulating her into a situation where she will be alone with him. This can be achieved by being alone with her at her or his residence or in a car.
http://www.aaets.org/article135.htm
I know the one in six. We all know the one in six, whether we've asked them or not.
I met many kids in high school who were sexually assaulted, some in junior high. A college friend had to leave school after a traumatic experience at her job, with a weapon involved. Several of my friends were abused by relatives, while growing up. They continued to live with their abusers, and as adults reconciled and included these abusers in family gatherings.
I know men who have been put on the predator list, and they admit they were at fault, or it was during a relationship they considered mutual. These were "normal" men, and still considered normal by the people who already knew them. I know a man who was asked to leave a church youth role, due to impropriety... and at least two local pastors who had self-control issues (one rumored to have committed crimes that were covered up).
Our naivety should not lead people to deny the risks around them. If a person is getting the creeps from someone, they should pay attention to the vibes, and start building up their defense network.
There will always be people innocently accused, and some in prison... but a law officer will not make an arrest before a crime is committed, so there's no risk of a report leading to an unfair arrest.
Most rape victims do not want to report the crime immediately after it happens. Discouraging a person from talking about their concerns reinforces this resistance to reporting criminals.
Additionally --1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime (14.8% completed rape; 2.8% attempted rape).1
17.7 million American women have been victims of attempted or completed rape.1
Acquaintance rape is much more prevalent than stranger rape. In a study published by the Department of Justice, 82% of the victims were raped by someone they knew (acquaintance/friend, intimate, relative) and 18% were raped by a stranger.
From a report on Violence Against Women based on data from the National Crime Victimization Survey, Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1995
In the United States, a rape is reported about once every five minutes.
FBI Uniform Crime Report, 2000
Rape is called "the most underreported violent crime in America." In a large national survey of American women, only 16% of the rapes (approximately one out of every six) had ever been reported to the police.
Rape in America: A Report to the Nation, National Victim Center, 1992
Statistics | Rape Treatment Center
If you are unsure about reporting:
Unsure About Reporting | Rape Treatment Center
From a site on preventing campus assaults:From a report on Violence Against Women based on data from the National Crime Victimization Survey, Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1995
In the United States, a rape is reported about once every five minutes.
FBI Uniform Crime Report, 2000
Rape is called "the most underreported violent crime in America." In a large national survey of American women, only 16% of the rapes (approximately one out of every six) had ever been reported to the police.
Rape in America: A Report to the Nation, National Victim Center, 1992
Statistics | Rape Treatment Center
If you are unsure about reporting:
Unsure About Reporting | Rape Treatment Center
The Acquaintance Rapist
Unfortunately, one cannot identify an acquaintance rapist on the basis of his appearance. He could be anyone, from a classmate, a science laboratory partner, a boyfriend, or just the nice guy that lives in the apartment next door.
While acquaintance rapist cannot be identified by their appearance, they do engage in certain behaviors in order to win the confidence and trust of their victims. The primary goal of the acquaintance rapist is to increase the victim's vulnerability. He is highly manipulative ... .
The acquaintance rapists also significantly increase the victim's vulnerability by manipulating her into a situation where she will be alone with him. This can be achieved by being alone with her at her or his residence or in a car.
http://www.aaets.org/article135.htm
I met many kids in high school who were sexually assaulted, some in junior high. A college friend had to leave school after a traumatic experience at her job, with a weapon involved. Several of my friends were abused by relatives, while growing up. They continued to live with their abusers, and as adults reconciled and included these abusers in family gatherings.
I know men who have been put on the predator list, and they admit they were at fault, or it was during a relationship they considered mutual. These were "normal" men, and still considered normal by the people who already knew them. I know a man who was asked to leave a church youth role, due to impropriety... and at least two local pastors who had self-control issues (one rumored to have committed crimes that were covered up).
Our naivety should not lead people to deny the risks around them. If a person is getting the creeps from someone, they should pay attention to the vibes, and start building up their defense network.
There will always be people innocently accused, and some in prison... but a law officer will not make an arrest before a crime is committed, so there's no risk of a report leading to an unfair arrest.
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