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Laurie919 said:
What is wrong with hugging. A good hug can make you feel great.....
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They can also make you feel uncomfortable

Although, I've never known a guy to turn down a hug from an attractive lady :thumbsup:
unless his wife/GF was standing right next to him :eek:
 
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soccerdad66 said:
They can also make you feel uncomfortable

Although, I've never known a guy to turn down a hug from an attractive lady :thumbsup:
unless his wife/GF was standing right next to him :eek:
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Hmmm...if he wouldn't hug the woman in front of his GF/wife, then he probably shouldn't be hugging her at all...
 
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I'm very space concious. I don't like to hug everyone. I'll hug any kid that wants to hug me; but i see that as different as hugging adults. I have no problems hugging my family or even friends. But i don't care about hugging people i barely know; especially if it's a guy. If he wants a hug then he needs to get to know me otherwise i don't want a stranger or even an aquantiance in my space.
 
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I tend to avoid it whenever possible, although I put up with it when my close family does it. I naturally flinch away when someone hugs me, which puts us both in a kind of awkward situation.

Of course, this mentality tends to leave me starved for human contact, but it's not on my top list of things to get over.
 
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way down deep in my core, I'm a hugger.

I know this because after two beers I can look around the room and see the good in everyone.

After the third, I want to hug everyone.

Especially you that's reading this post right now. :hug:
 
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I voted "friends and family". I'm not gonna hug someone I just met 5 minutes ago! rofl. But I hug my family and extended family and my friends. My cousin brought her fiance to a family reunion and I hugged him even though I'd only met him once before, but he's about to be family, you know? But it also has to do with how the other person feels. I mean, if I would be comfortable hugging the person, but it's pretty clear that the other person wouldn't be comfortable hugging me, then I won't. hehe. ;)
 
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hard to answer. voted "family and friends".
I'm not into hugging, but when the occasion arises I do. Upon first meeting me, for some reason people like to hug me, more than others?????

I've also hugged strangers. There was a man collecting money for a thanksgiving dinner for his family, I got a certificate from a quizinos and hugged him and asked for those he wanted prayer for.

Hugging is hard is sometimes hard, but I just do it. Just like saying I love you at the end of every goodbye with my family.
 
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Gam3rG1rl4Chr1st said:
I voted "friends and family". I'm not gonna hug someone I just met 5 minutes ago! rofl. But I hug my family and extended family and my friends. My cousin brought her fiance to a family reunion and I hugged him even though I'd only met him once before, but he's about to be family, you know? But it also has to do with how the other person feels. I mean, if I would be comfortable hugging the person, but it's pretty clear that the other person wouldn't be comfortable hugging me, then I won't. hehe. ;)
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yeah..someone might not want to be touched...but sometimes if you see that person could USE a hug. I don't think we should let our fears get the best of what could make someone's day you know..


I know I said differently earlier but I just thought of what only hugging family and friends can hurt the world we create around us.
 
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mina said:
I'm very space concious. I don't like to hug everyone. ............ But i don't care about hugging people i barely know; especially if it's a guy. If .............
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Mina, Yep me too, now that I think about it. Yeah, some guys I wonder........

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........... I naturally flinch away when someone hugs me, which puts us both in a kind of awkward situation.
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alfrodull, me too sometimes. My boss is huggy and has been offended by this, ohhh well.
 
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rifle5k said:
yeah..someone might not want to be touched...but sometimes if you see that person could USE a hug. I don't think we should let our fears get the best of what could make someone's day you know..


I know I said differently earlier but I just thought of what only hugging family and friends can hurt the world we create around us.
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Very very true! I would be comfortable hugging a person if it looked like they needed a hug. And I have actually done so a couple of times. Only time I wouldn't be comfortable is if it was a guy and he would read more into the hug than just a friendly comforting hug. You know? :o It just depends on if you're comfortable and if the other person is comfortable. Good point, Rifle5k. ;)
 
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rifle5k said:
yeah..someone might not want to be touched...but sometimes if you see that person could USE a hug. I don't think we should let our fears get the best of what could make someone's day you know..


I know I said differently earlier but I just thought of what only hugging family and friends can hurt the world we create around us.
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rifle5k, if I remember right your not in a country that's very huggy. It's kind of wierd, I've done it with those I was close to saying goodbye to them, otherwise bows were most preferred or handshakes.
 
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