How to Forgive....

[Angeloffire]

Moriah,

Please just calm down. I respect that you have your own opinions but you are getting really aggressive and abusive. I think this mornings little skirmish on my forum was a good example.

It doesn't matter what I think anyways. Just forget about me and go on. You only will only have to answer to God, not me. Seek out your own salvation and don't give me a second thought.

It appears we clash,,,,so I will try and leave your posts alone so you don't get in trouble and get tossed of the CF forum.

I checked out the arcade and it looks like fun and tetris was a blast. Maybe you could bash me in tetris instead? I didn't score well, so odds would be in your favor.

 

[Elijah2]

Elijah2, for the millionth time, speaking out of the generalities of its own experience does not constitute an attempt to get a personal dig in at you. Sorry if you feel this way, but after having explained this for at least the third time this week, Moriah will no longer count it her responsibility to do so. From now on, if you wish to draw that inference, you will be entirely on your own. It has several times told you already, this bes not the case. However, neither will it be manipulated into silence concerning its views or its experience just because sharing them risks someone making this type of mistake. From now on, if you insist upon interpreting Moriah's statements about its general experience with CF as some type of personal dig against you, you will have to be entirely alone with that. Moriah will no longer permit you or anyone else to make that her problem.

If Moriah's posts upset and provoke you that much to be such a great stumbling stone then by all means, please just put Moriah on ignore and be at peace.

Moriah, my dear sister, I accept what you say above, and I am sorry for being thinned skinned. But, when your posting was made directly after my posting to "T", I assumed that your comments where directed to me.

Why make these comments anyway in the first place?

I am sorry that I may be a bit thinned-skinned lately, but I am at loose ends at why you keep going this way, when most people over the past two years are concerned for you and want to help you.

As for my comments I made to "T" was a mistake on my part, because I misunderstood his posting, as I assumed they were doubting what I had said. Nothing more and nothing less. It was a mistake!

Sorry my dear sister, but pleast stop accusing others, of mud slinging, and all those other things that are not happening.

And nobody is reporting you are trying to get you banned, at least I'm not.

Be blessed in Jesus' Name.

 

[Elijah2]

Sorry, Bro. Just not feelin' the love here. I feel like you have judged and condemned me because I disagreed with you that forgiveness means that a memory of pain disappears literally. You clarified your position somewhat in the last post and I appreciate that.

However, saying that I "have a doubting spirit" (what's that? demon possession?) and that I am "so confused about forgiveness" is, I believe, overstepping your authority. I feel you are also implying by the phrase, "never DOUBT AGAIN!" that I lack faith in Jesus Christ or that He has enabled me to forgive.

Part of the forgiving process is to admit that one has been caused unwarranted pain. It is not glossing it over and saying that "that didn't hurt."

Elijah2 Sir, you have hurt me. In fact you have hurt me several times on this board by judging and condemning my beliefs as "false" and implying that the discernment that the Lord has given me is inferior to yours. I have chosen to ignore these offences as being trivial, but they are accumulating.


I forgive you.



I require nothing in the way of explanation or apology from you. You are forgiven. I can do this because My identity is in Christ Jesus and I in no way need your approval.

May the Lord bless you and may you be able to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fulness of God.

Tsadde

Tsadde, I am sorry but I misunderstood that original posting of yours. I assumed that you were doubting what I had posted originally.

We all have bad days, and for causing you hurt SEVEN times is a bit overreactive.

I made simple mistake, so your forgiveness is accepted, but to accuse me of "judging and condemning your beliefs as "false" and implying that the discernment that the Lord has given to you as inferior to mine is an overexagerrated accusation.

I don't remember EVER judging or condeming you or implying that you are inferior.

Sorry, if you assume that, the same as I assumed you were doubting.

Be blessed in Jesus' Name.

 

[FreeinChrist]

Mod Hat Post

That Is Enough With The Personal Jabs And Comments!!

Closing This Thread For Review.