DonVA
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- May 20, 2006
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Yea, my kid came to me pretty much informing me that I couldn't hit him since he was a foster child.
While he's right, I had to let him know that there WILL be discipline. I told him that his age, and with the restrictions foster parents are under, his punishments would last WAY longer than a spanking would take, as it would involve revoking privileges, doing additional chores, writing apologies, repairing or replacing lost or damaged items...
I've had to be creative, and it's taking him forever (3 years now) to get the message, and he will STILL behave just long enough to get the privilege back before he'll revert back to the old, unacceptable behaviors.
Now he's been told that he can expect to not get anything he wants until I see the behaviors I want.
While he's right, I had to let him know that there WILL be discipline. I told him that his age, and with the restrictions foster parents are under, his punishments would last WAY longer than a spanking would take, as it would involve revoking privileges, doing additional chores, writing apologies, repairing or replacing lost or damaged items...
I've had to be creative, and it's taking him forever (3 years now) to get the message, and he will STILL behave just long enough to get the privilege back before he'll revert back to the old, unacceptable behaviors.
Now he's been told that he can expect to not get anything he wants until I see the behaviors I want.
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