i don't know the answer apart of saying you are not alone, there are a lot of people unhappy with their wives and counselling usually doesn't help because the counsellor always picks the female side.
Men are supposedly to love their wives like Christ loves the Church, no one is talking about His disciplinarian side, all only talk about His graceful side. So it doesn't matter how badly your wife treats you, suck it up is their motto, but oh wrongful you, if you even as much as raise your voice against her, for she is the weaker vessel to be cherished loved and dotted on.
Our son is going through this right at this moment in time. She can manipulate, scream bad and mean things him, belittle him in front of the kids, steal from him, exploit and deceive him, but he is not allowed to get upset about that for Jesus wouldn't love His Church like that.
i advise you to seek good Christian counselling, i say good because a lot isn't good. Your wife needs a Jesus revelation, you might need one as well, so that she, and you will get arrested in your bad life and Jesus brings back to life the good life that was once there.
Peace.
Who gave a man the right to "discipline" a woman? If you can not accept the person, and live in relative peace, don't live with them, don't choose them as a wife or husband. Find some soul you can live with. When a man, full of his own faults - but "a man", would try to "discipline" me, show me how I need to be, I would say: look at the log in your eye first, and then the speck in mine. And leave. No deal in constant reminding that someone is not perfect. No one is. "A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife" - man and wife should be one. Not one "preaching" to other. They need to live in unity, to support each other. Every human should look in her/him self. And get better by his own pace. Love helps a lot. Not nagging, nor disciplining.
If a man takes an evil wife, who's to blame? You can not change her, only God can. No one can tell me that a man didn't know what kind of person his future wife is. He knew very well, but didn't care as much since she was real' pretty. And that is usually enough, for a man thinks he can "discipline" her later. Women are not domestic animals. Even animal you don't discipline, but teach. Best by reward and kindness.
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