If you aren’t comfortable sharing what you said, that would indicate it was pretty bad.I was drinking a little that day and I said something about her health. I was a screw up when it came to that
No, friends don’t treat each other that way. If you treat your friends like crap, they will likely leave the friendship. Apologizing means nothing unless you change your behavior. And in this case, it’s probably too late.Yes I can say hurtful, mean, and sometimes horrible things but friends do hurt each other. That's life
If you aren’t comfortable sharing what you said, that would indicate it was pretty bad.
No, friends don’t treat each other that way. If you treat your friends like crap, they will likely leave the friendship. Apologizing means nothing unless you change your behavior. And in this case, it’s probably too late.
Do you think I should give her more time to heal? Or let her go for good? Again I apologize for sounding all me of having the fear that she and her family talking about me to other people.
I don't mean to be pushy. I don't. But her not letting me know that if she or if everyone in her family is ok is worrying me
We're in the same situation, but me, I've done wrong in my best friend 6yrs ago, I already apologize with all my heart, but they won't accept it. They are unbelievers.
Now b/c of this, I'm afraid to make new friends, thinking if I'll say anything wrong to them and history will repeat itself
If it is difficult for you to control your temper and you often say harsh words you’d have to befriend someone who can handle that. Otherwise, the offense will end the friendship.
Just 1 other thing I don't understand and please share your opinion. If she really didn't want to bother with me anymore, then why did she tell me when we last spoke "give me several days to calm down". I then found out from a acquaintance friend (who knows her too) that "she cannot talk to me now and doesn't know when she will accept my apology". I will talk to her again (meaning me) but I don't know when". Those were her words according to my acquaintance friend. Do you think this was just to shut me up? Or her honestly?
Yeah I know but it won't be fair to them imho
Either she changed her mind or she doesn’t want to deal with the situation right now. She said that to someone else in confidence. It is possible she feels differently since time has passed.
I think it’s best to settle things and remove any ambiguity. Being in limbo just adds to the stress. But sometimes that can’t be helped.