I actually know a number of women and their stories. I'm a grown up.
If abortion is not murder in your local law today, then it is not murder.
Even in scripture.
Exodus 21:22-25
Numbers 5:11-31
Deuteronomy 28:18,53
2 Kings 8:12
2 Kings 15:16
Isaiah 13:18
#4 Doctors had told her she could not get pregnant. She was in hospitals for over 2 years.
Sounds like a miracle baby then. The point is that murder is murder regardless of legality. The bottom line is what I have been saying since the beginning of this thread. Abortion is murder. No, I am not saying that women who have an abortion should be convicted of murder. But they and those who performed the abortion are guilty of murder.
Exodus 21:22-25
“If people are fighting and hit a pregnant woman and she gives birth prematurely but there is no serious injury, the offender must be fined whatever the woman’s husband demands and the court allows. 23 But if there is serious injury, you are to take life for life, 24 eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, 25 burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise."
Note that the scripture is saying that if they baby is born prematurely but is healthy nonetheless, the man should be fined. However, if the baby is harmed, "eye for eye, tooth for tooth". Meaning, if she miscarries, the man is put to death.
Deuteronomy 28:18,53 - Miscarriages and cannibalism as punishment for disobedience and you are encouraging more disobedience? Notice that these are "curses" as a result of Israel's disobedience. This is something you could have easily seen if you actually read the chapters you are referencing rather than doing topical searches to data mine the scriptures you want. If you had actually took the time to read the passages in context you would see that in v. 15 it clearly says "However, if you do not obey the Lord your God and do not carefully follow all his commands and decrees I am giving you today, all these curses will come on you and overtake you". Then it talks about miscarriages and cannibalism.
In regards to the other scriptures, did you even read the passages to understand the literary context at which they were written by reading the chapters they are located in? I assume you haven't because these are all passages that either state that "ripping open pregnant women" was wicked or was as a result of God's wrath for disobedience. These passages actually support the argument against abortion.
Listen, the bottom line is that abortion is murder. Your wife is guilty of murder. Pro-choice is pro-murder. Biblically, there is no other way around it. No, I am not saying she should be convicted because "he who is without sin may cast the first stone". I understand that you and your wife have a personal dilemma because of her decisions in the past. But just sin is sin and rationalizing it and making excuses for it is not the right choice. God will forgive her, but their has to be repentance, not excuses. Do you not see how dangerous this has become for you? In your attempts to rationalize, justify, and defend a sinful decision, you are on the record on this thread saying that: "local laws take priority over scripture"; Daniel was wrong for not praying to the King; Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were wrong to worship the golden image because it resulted in people being forced to show reverence to God; and we must receive the mark of the beast. Your attempt to biblically defend abortion is no different than someone trying to biblically defend prostitution because Rahab was a prostitute, adultery because David committed adultery, or idolatry because the Israelites worshiped a golden calf. Your distortion of scripture is a result of you trying to make the scriptures justify and excuse your wife.