To not have a particular mission or not be given the special gifts could indicate to not have the holy spirit. A person might not knew right a way what he/she is suppose to do once they have the Holy Spirit. The NT saids we are the temple for the Holy Spirit. After the Holy Spirit settles in the temple of a person's life then God will eventually use that person either for a small or big assignment. If a person does not have the Holy Spirit then that person is not part of the body of Christ. Thus, no salvation. You must be born again. A by-product to being born again is having the Holy Spirit in your temple. Either a person is a temple for demons or a temple for the Holy Spirit.
Being Born Again is not a request but a is an obligation to enter the kingdom of God.
- John 3:3
Jesus answered and said to him, Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
John 3:2-4 (in Context) John 3 (Whole Chapter)
- John 3:7
Do not marvel that I said to you, You must be born again.
John 3:6-8 (in Context) John 3 (Whole Chapter)
- 1 Peter 1:23
having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever,
1 Peter 1:22-24 (in Context) 1 Peter 1 (Whole Chapter)
Holy Spirit doing once it enters people
Acts 2:3-5 (New King James Version)
3 Then there appeared to them divided tongues, as of fire, and
one sat upon each of them. 4 And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (New King James Version)
18
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but
he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your
body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? 20 For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body[
a] and in your spirit, which are Gods.
Matthew 25:14-30 (New King James Version)
The Parable of the Talents
14 For
the kingdom of heaven is like a man traveling to a far country,
who called his own servants and delivered his goods to them. 15 And to one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, to each according to his own ability; and immediately he went on a journey. 16 Then he who had received the five talents went and traded with them, and made another five talents. 17 And likewise he who
had received two gained two more also. 18 But he who had received one went and dug in the ground, and hid his lords money. 19 After a long time the lord of those servants came and settled accounts with them.
20 So he who had received five talents came and brought five other talents, saying, Lord, you delivered to me five talents; look, I have gained five more talents besides them. 21 His lord said to him, Well
done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord. 22 He also who had received two talents came and said, Lord, you delivered to me two talents; look, I have gained two more talents besides them. 23 His lord said to him, Well
done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.
24 Then he who had received the one talent came and said, Lord, I knew you to be a hard man, reaping where you have not sown, and gathering where you have not scattered seed. 25 And I was afraid, and went and hid your talent in the ground. Look,
there you have
what is yours.
26 But his lord answered and said to him, You wicked and lazy servant, you knew that I reap where I have not sown, and gather where I have not scattered seed. 27 So you ought to have deposited my money with the bankers, and at my coming I would have received back my own with interest. 28 So take the talent from him, and give
it to him who has ten talents.
29 For to everyone who has, more will be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who does not have, even what he has will be taken away. 30 And cast the unprofitable servant into the outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
I know this is more of an answer than you would ask but there is a point to my answer. Those who have the Holy Spirit has talents of the spirit. They might not have exactly the same talents but the talents are all from the same spirit. The ones that put use to their talents honor God. The ones that hide their talent God punishes them.
You question you ask "Conversely, would you agree that if we are not given a particular mission, we are not given the special gifts specific to that mission?"
I would say Everything has a purpose. What ever you go through God has prepared it for you. What ever situation/mission/job/ you go through, God knows you will go through your mission/activity before you arrive to that destination. God will equip you for whatever situation you will go through. Of Course, you have your brothers/sisters in Christ to go through the mission with you in certain situations. So you can think of like this: You brother/sister will be one of the gifts of the spirit. Kind of like a substitution for prophesying, speaking tongues, interpreting tongues, raising the dead, healing the sick, healing the mute, etc....
I will close with this......
John 14:11-13 (New King James Version)
11 Believe Me that I
am in the Father and the Father in Me, or else believe Me for the sake of the works themselves.
The Answered Prayer
12
Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father. 13 And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
So Jesus said we will do that he did when he was on earth embodied by flesh. He even added we will do greater things than he. That is a powerful statement from Jesus.