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cjba nothign is wrong between u n ur hubby its the devil wichich has entered in his mind n so he's acting this way. By asking him to leave ur just hurting God as ur hubby is God's child n through u he is pure n vice versa Pray for your hubby and ask him what he does not like n say sorry to him to avoid the seperation as thats what devil wants. We don't want Devil to enter our life we want God right. Well this is a small thing for us to humble ourself n forgive everyone. remember Lord when he was dieing on the cross asked God to forgive our sins for we didn't know what we are doing. Don't u think its really painful? Jesus ask to forgive n be humble.. try this n see how your life will change. Never Question God think deep inside y it happened. Go for confession, forgive everyone. God does not want anyone to seperate its due to our weakness things happens an the satan enters n makes us more restless which leads to seperation. Once seperated it takes time cuz one party listens to the Devil. God is waiting with his armas wide open to forgive us to talk to us. Tahnk n praise him all the time ....... Lord I pray to guide cjba n her hubby remove the darkness from them n unite them. Amen

Dear cjba when u know the devil has entered in ur hubby mind.. the only thing u have to do is pray for him nad love him even more. He stays as a stranger.. its not him actually tis the devil who made him do that. You just keep normal n do all the good things that you can don't ignore ur hubby. Remeber we are God's children adn ignoring someone is like ignoring God so do all the ebst and pray for him. Give thanks and praises as much you can.. Thank Lord for the day adn for the troubles that comes ..Lord will Bless u.. n when u do this things ur huuby seeing it to will releasi how much u love him your prayers will drive the satan away and the good thing is ur hubby is still leaving in ur house so u can cook for him and do everythin that a wife does. Lord Bless cjba' hubby and drive the satan from him. Show him the love cjba has for him n mould his heart. Unite them Lord Jesus and restore their happiness I pray this in Jesus name Amen.

cjba said:

I know it is the devil that has entered my husband's mind. I have ask him for forgiveness on whatever I have done in this marriage. I also have told him I forgive him and wants us to start on a clean slate. His response is that "this marriage is over" and "you need to let go"

There is nothing I can do anymore to save my marriage. It is God's will. I feel that God wants me to let go. I feel if I stay with my husband he will only get worse.

The hard part is accepting what I cannot change. My husband use to be a loving man. I was so in love with him. I guess I still am but what good does it do me.

So many people here come for prayer and their spouses still leave them behind. We just have to focus on God and let him guide us that are left behind to lean on Him. For in Him we can find peace. I'm trying hard to get there. But it is hard since my husband still lives in the home. He acts like a stranger. I have a stranger in my home after almost 21 years. The man that lives here only thinks of himself. He does not care who he hurts. Yes the devil has entered his mind.

Keep me in prayer. Sometimes the days are really bad. They are getting farther inbetween. Today was a killer.

God Bless and thank you for posting. It helps to communicate with people. This site has become such a blessing.

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cjba,
You have done all that you can do and can't have regrets about any of it. God loves you and will be by your side in this. Remember, you can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. He is awesome and will help you through each step of the way. I'm praying for you sweetie. You can make it through this stay strong.
God Bless,
lvs2sng

Dear CJBA believe and faith is all that u should have in Jesus if u belive ur gonna get everythign u ask from Jesus. Amen

Praise you Jesus for showering ur light on cjba...... hearing this tears came in my eyes. As Jesus is always there with me. See how much Jesus loves u cjba. The only thing u should remember is repent and humble urself by forgiving everyone. Don't say anythign to ur hubby but talk to him in a casual don't ask him y he is doing this n that.......... things will go fine when ur saying the prayer say it slwly and wiht faith in jesus. Lord thank you for ur deliverance to cjba. Pour ur precious Blood on cjba and her hubby and ubite them Lord. I ask this through christ our Lord Amen. One more thing jesus talks to us all the time in someway. We have to keep our ears open n listen to him.

cjba - Just a quick sisterly hug coming your way! My husband moved out 2 weeks ago after 20 yrs of marriage. Like you, I am devastated! I have been praying and spending time in the Word and I have also been seeing a christian marriage counselor by myself and he has really helped. All we can really do is give our husbands, marriage, and family to the Lord in trust and faith. He loves us so much - he is our Father! He will never leave us not forsake us! He has wonderful plans for us! TRUST in him! My husband is not saved so maybe, just maybe God is using this to bring my husband to Him. I just picked up a good book from the Christian book store "When he leaves", it was very comforting. Try and take care of yourself. Exercise, if you can. Try to eat ( I have lost 5 pounds, so far), get sleep, be there for your kids - for each other, and pray without ceasing! And then pray some more!!! I have to pray for the Lord to help me with these same things each and every morning, afternoon, and evening and every time in-between! You are not alone! Your sister in Christ, Connie

cjba said:

Connilw,

You are a very strong woman. I wish I had your strength. We had a very bad arguement a couple of hours ago. Now everything is so much worse. He won't leave until I sign papers. But I don't want to participate in a divorce for this is not what I want. But I have no choice. I am trying to accept what I cannot change. My husband told me that I am his problem.

I pray for strength and sometimes it works and yet other times it does not.

I read the same book awhile ago. It was hard because one of the authors have the same name as my husband only spelled different. My husband's name is Noel.

I pray that your husband will be saved and God is using this to get your husband's attention. My husband isn't saved either.

God Bless

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Good morning! I am so sorry about your argument! I know it is so hard not to fight when tensions are so high. Please don't let him bully you into signing any papers. Please seek counsel FIRST, both Godly and legal. I told my husband that we had over 20 years together, we didn't need to rush into divorce. I told him that I would not be serving him papers, if thats what he wanted he would have to do it himself. But, at the same time, I was told by my Christian marriage counselor to talk with an attorney and let them know what is going on, to be aware of my rights if he does serve me with papers. In fact, I have my first meeting with an attorney today. Yuk! Pray for me at around 2 today! At first, I was going to try and fight, fight, fight for my marriage if he does serve me with papers, at least try and make the judge order him into marriage counseling with me. But my counselor pointed out to me that we are COMMANDED to let an unsaved spouse leave if they want. I believe it is in Corinthians, cant remember the verse. So I will not beg, plead, fight with him to stay. That doesn't mean I won't be fighting thru spiritual warfare, tho. Praying for protection, wisdom, and faith over my husband and myself and our family. Remember, we can win our husbands to the Lord thru our "gentle" spirit! My counselor also knows that I had been praying for a Christian husband so he did tell me that it is possible that GOD is answering my prayer request, just not the way that I had planned and with whom. I have to be open to that possiblity but I am leaning on the hope that this will lead my husband to the Lord! So far he has only been staying with his parents and procrastinated on getting an apartment. So that is a good sign. We need to just take it one day at a time and draw close to the Lord - because then He will draw close to us! He knows that plans he has for us Good and NOT evil!!!! Your sis in Christ, Connie

Dear cjba and conie...... tell me somthign do u'llw ant a divorce........ if no them simple just surrender ur hubby to the lord and say Lord take care of my hubby as I trust him to u and pray for him. Regarding the notice try to avoid and types of fight just humble urself even if ur right n hes talkin out of the way just be humble n listen to what he says. Let God take the decesion as if u trust God and belive from ur heart then Lord will take decesion by puting in ur huby minds the things which u'll be suprised. Well as for me cjba........ I am not worried of the consiquences...... I have surrndered my wife to the Lord and I can feel Jesus present with me each n every min...... Since fermine is my wife and when jesus is with me I don't ahve to worry as the Lord takes care of her and does the talking. Sonner u'll here my testinomy as I know that fermine will come to me as I'll just utter one word that is sorry nothign else. You know what happened recently my things were stolen from my house ans it was my wife behind this tellign someone else to do it and I know who that person is........... I coudl have called the cop n put him in trouble........... and even my wife would be in trouble as thats the guy who came between us........... but know I dind't do it .. Jesus said win the fight with lvoe and I just smile to see the follish thing she did as I am not bothered if my money 1000$ some gold is stolen when I have the most precious thing with me JESUS He is greater then anythign in this world n when I have him I can get anythign in life. I take no tension even when my wife told me she wants to seperate...... just prays with faith and belives that the lord will take care n yes Have got messages from the Lord tht somethign good is awaiting for me soon....... n bad is gonna happen to my wife n that guy but I still pray for her n that guy to give salvation n trun to the Lord. The day the things were stolen Lord had given me the messaeg that somthgin abd is gonna take place...... n after 4 day just before when I came to know I got the message to pray n pray as Devil is gonna tempt me n yeah when I came to knwo of this devil was tempting me to do all sort of thigns........ but I just smiled and belived in Lord and phew Santa ran away. Our Faith should be repentance thats comes first, forgiveness that shoudl be unconditionally adn humbleness by believing that wahtever u ask the Lord u will receive and has receive...... do this n see for urself u won't be worried anymore. Lord Bless u'll