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[cjba]

Doing much better today. Trying to let it go and have faith in the Lord. I know he has a plan for our life.


I did find out today that he told 2 of our kids that he will be eventually be moving out. So much for doing much better.

Keep us in prayer.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

cjba nothign is wrong between u n ur hubby its the devil wichich has entered in his mind n so he's acting this way. By asking him to leave ur just hurting God as ur hubby is God's child n through u he is pure n vice versa Pray for your hubby and ask him what he does not like n say sorry to him to avoid the seperation as thats what devil wants. We don't want Devil to enter our life we want God right. Well this is a small thing for us to humble ourself n forgive everyone. remember Lord when he was dieing on the cross asked God to forgive our sins for we didn't know what we are doing. Don't u think its really painful? Jesus ask to forgive n be humble.. try this n see how your life will change. Never Question God think deep inside y it happened. Go for confession, forgive everyone. God does not want anyone to seperate its due to our weakness things happens an the satan enters n makes us more restless which leads to seperation. Once seperated it takes time cuz one party listens to the Devil. God is waiting with his armas wide open to forgive us to talk to us. Tahnk n praise him all the time ....... Lord I pray to guide cjba n her hubby remove the darkness from them n unite them. Amen

 

[cjba]

I know it is the devil that has entered my husband's mind. I have ask him for forgiveness on whatever I have done in this marriage. I also have told him I forgive him and wants us to start on a clean slate. His response is that "this marriage is over" and "you need to let go"

There is nothing I can do anymore to save my marriage. It is God's will. I feel that God wants me to let go. I feel if I stay with my husband he will only get worse.

The hard part is accepting what I cannot change. My husband use to be a loving man. I was so in love with him. I guess I still am but what good does it do me.

So many people here come for prayer and their spouses still leave them behind. We just have to focus on God and let him guide us that are left behind to lean on Him. For in Him we can find peace. I'm trying hard to get there. But it is hard since my husband still lives in the home. He acts like a stranger. I have a stranger in my home after almost 21 years. The man that lives here only thinks of himself. He does not care who he hurts. Yes the devil has entered his mind.

Keep me in prayer. Sometimes the days are really bad. They are getting farther inbetween. Today was a killer.

God Bless and thank you for posting. It helps to communicate with people. This site has become such a blessing.

 

[novi12]

Dear cjba when u know the devil has entered in ur hubby mind.. the only thing u have to do is pray for him nad love him even more. He stays as a stranger.. its not him actually tis the devil who made him do that. You just keep normal n do all the good things that you can don't ignore ur hubby. Remeber we are God's children adn ignoring someone is like ignoring God so do all the ebst and pray for him. Give thanks and praises as much you can.. Thank Lord for the day adn for the troubles that comes ..Lord will Bless u.. n when u do this things ur huuby seeing it to will releasi how much u love him your prayers will drive the satan away and the good thing is ur hubby is still leaving in ur house so u can cook for him and do everythin that a wife does. Lord Bless cjba' hubby and drive the satan from him. Show him the love cjba has for him n mould his heart. Unite them Lord Jesus and restore their happiness I pray this in Jesus name Amen.

 

[lvs2sng]

I know it is the devil that has entered my husband's mind. I have ask him for forgiveness on whatever I have done in this marriage. I also have told him I forgive him and wants us to start on a clean slate. His response is that "this marriage is over" and "you need to let go"

There is nothing I can do anymore to save my marriage. It is God's will. I feel that God wants me to let go. I feel if I stay with my husband he will only get worse.

The hard part is accepting what I cannot change. My husband use to be a loving man. I was so in love with him. I guess I still am but what good does it do me.

So many people here come for prayer and their spouses still leave them behind. We just have to focus on God and let him guide us that are left behind to lean on Him. For in Him we can find peace. I'm trying hard to get there. But it is hard since my husband still lives in the home. He acts like a stranger. I have a stranger in my home after almost 21 years. The man that lives here only thinks of himself. He does not care who he hurts. Yes the devil has entered his mind.

Keep me in prayer. Sometimes the days are really bad. They are getting farther inbetween. Today was a killer.

God Bless and thank you for posting. It helps to communicate with people. This site has become such a blessing.

cjba,
You have done all that you can do and can't have regrets about any of it. God loves you and will be by your side in this. Remember, you can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. He is awesome and will help you through each step of the way. I'm praying for you sweetie. You can make it through this stay strong.
God Bless,
lvs2sng

 

[cjba]

Thank you for the prayer! I'm focusing on God day by day to give me strength to carry on.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Dear friends here is somthing I would like to share with u'll a true story.
In a village in hong kong their was a faimly with only son. Father & mother were farmer and son who had just completed his studies wanted to do some creative. So he tells his father that he wants to experience new things and so wants to go to the city ( bangkok) as he though this farmer job was not for him. The father gives him permission. The son reaches the city adn after somedays finds new friends. This friends teases him n asked him if he wanted to make money............ So the journey starts as he gets a job of delivering pakets and gets money for it. He didn't know what was inside so getin curios he asked what was inside and they tells him drugs. one more step ahead as he enjoys this works and gets more money including the rest of the enjoyment along with it. After some days he was asked if he wanted more money and that he should kidnap small girls from the village and sell them here. He agrees and there another step ahead with more n more money forgetign his aprenst and all other things. As time went by the law caught him and he was jailed for three years. In jail he remeber what his father said that he will wait for him with his arams wide open. He thinks that his father must have got all the information. So he write to his da that he will be passing that side and if he loves me then just tie a handkerchief to the tree outside our house as when I pass that side if I see it I'll come home or else will go away. So on the day of his realease he seat in the train n goes home...... on the way home he does not has the heart to lok for the handkerchief thinking that his dad must be angry. Just when he reached near the tree with all his courage he looks at the tree and see that the whole tree is covered with white bedsheet and his fater waits for him with his armas wide open. Imagine if the earthly father waits with his arms wide open to welcome his his sons who did all thins wrongly in his life.......think how much more the heavely Father is waiting with his Arms wide open to welcome us. Our Father forgives our sins and put all our sins deep in the sea puts a board no fishing. This means confess ur sins and forget that u have ever sinned This much Love our heavenly father has for us. We are the Rock for him his perfect creation. Read 1corinthians 13: 4-10 repleace love for God as God is love. His love is steadfast for us.Read Isaiah 49: 15-16 parents will undertand this more. Believe in the Lord and 'll get whatever you ask God Loves u. Lord Jesus Bless Bh2 Aqua, Child of God, cog, Beat.face, rogeradn all those who come here with their troubles. Embrace them Lord and realease ur light on them so that they can see u clearly believing u and driving away santan that comes between us. I pray through jesus Christ our Lord Amen.

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

Thank you for the story. You are very right if a father here can love unconditinally. God who is almightier will always be at our side and waiting for us to open the door to Him.

God Bless and you and your family are in my prayers.

 

[novi12]

Dear CJBA believe and faith is all that u should have in Jesus if u belive ur gonna get everythign u ask from Jesus. Amen

 

[cjba]

Dear CJBA believe and faith is all that u should have in Jesus if u belive ur gonna get everythign u ask from Jesus. Amen

novi12,

Right now it is so hard to believe anything. I have gone through too much with the man. I love him with all my heart but this is not enough for him. He seeks the things of the world. He is no longer a Godly man. I have a choice to continue in this sad situation or finally let go and begin to heal. I want to heal. As much as this will hurt in giving up my husband, my marriage, my dreams the only choice I have is to let go. Otherwise I continue to hurt and I am tired of the pain. I am such an emotional roller coaster who know what I will be typing next. One moment I have had enough. Then I ask God why? Then I tell Him I can't take anymore and He tells me yes, you can. What is all this?

I'm tired!!!!!!

 

[novi12]

NoCJBA don't give up is this pain for u difficult???? Remeber how much pain did Jesus bear to relive us from sins. When he was dying he even said Father forgive us for we don't know what we are doing. Have Faith and pray for ur hubby he will be delivered. Giving up the marriage is inviting satan and making him happy. Rather bear the pain than making satan happy. Lord Jesus Pour ur Precious Blood on cjba and give all ur love and strength to bear the pain she is undergoing. Lord u died for us on the cross.......... and we can take our own cross now Lord. Bless cjba hubby and drive the satan away from him. Mould cjba hubby and bring him back to u. Keep cjba and her hubby happy and make them a loving couple. Though Christ our Lord Amen

 

[cjba]

novi12,

Thank you for the encouragement. Yes, this is what I felt earlier. I prayed today and read a little on suffering. Went to church (hubby went as well) the service was on salvation. You can not imagine how wonderful I feel right now. I have been praying for God to meet me where I am at. I feel that God did this for me today.

During the service I felt as if the message was for me. They discussed salvation, anxiety, God taking our sin, letting Him take our sin to cleanse us. I felt an amazing sence of relief. I felt no pain even with my hubby there. Even all the songs spoke to me today. One of the songs concentrated on giving God your pain and suffering and he will give you peace. The other song was on "Don't give up" I was in awe at this service. I felt as if no one else was in church and God was talking to me. This is the most wonderful feeling I have had in a very long time. Right now no matter what my husband does or says can not take this Glory I feel inside of knowing He is my Lord and Savior.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Praise you Jesus for showering ur light on cjba...... hearing this tears came in my eyes. As Jesus is always there with me. See how much Jesus loves u cjba. The only thing u should remember is repent and humble urself by forgiving everyone. Don't say anythign to ur hubby but talk to him in a casual don't ask him y he is doing this n that.......... things will go fine when ur saying the prayer say it slwly and wiht faith in jesus. Lord thank you for ur deliverance to cjba. Pour ur precious Blood on cjba and her hubby and ubite them Lord. I ask this through christ our Lord Amen. One more thing jesus talks to us all the time in someway. We have to keep our ears open n listen to him.

 

[cjba]

novi12,

Thank you for your message and prayer. How are you doing with your situation? You amaze me, here you are in the misdt of your own trial and you take the time to pray for others. What an unselfish act.

God Bless and you remain in my prayers.

 

[connielw]

cjba - Just a quick sisterly hug coming your way! My husband moved out 2 weeks ago after 20 yrs of marriage. Like you, I am devastated! I have been praying and spending time in the Word and I have also been seeing a christian marriage counselor by myself and he has really helped. All we can really do is give our husbands, marriage, and family to the Lord in trust and faith. He loves us so much - he is our Father! He will never leave us not forsake us! He has wonderful plans for us! TRUST in him! My husband is not saved so maybe, just maybe God is using this to bring my husband to Him. I just picked up a good book from the Christian book store "When he leaves", it was very comforting. Try and take care of yourself. Exercise, if you can. Try to eat ( I have lost 5 pounds, so far), get sleep, be there for your kids - for each other, and pray without ceasing! And then pray some more!!! I have to pray for the Lord to help me with these same things each and every morning, afternoon, and evening and every time in-between! You are not alone! Your sister in Christ, Connie

 

[cjba]

Connilw,

You are a very strong woman. I wish I had your strength. We had a very bad arguement a couple of hours ago. Now everything is so much worse. He won't leave until I sign papers. But I don't want to participate in a divorce for this is not what I want. But I have no choice. I am trying to accept what I cannot change. My husband told me that I am his problem.

I pray for strength and sometimes it works and yet other times it does not.

I read the same book awhile ago. It was hard because one of the authors have the same name as my husband only spelled different. My husband's name is Noel.

I pray that your husband will be saved and God is using this to get your husband's attention. My husband isn't saved either.

God Bless

 

[connielw]

Connilw,

You are a very strong woman. I wish I had your strength. We had a very bad arguement a couple of hours ago. Now everything is so much worse. He won't leave until I sign papers. But I don't want to participate in a divorce for this is not what I want. But I have no choice. I am trying to accept what I cannot change. My husband told me that I am his problem.

I pray for strength and sometimes it works and yet other times it does not.

I read the same book awhile ago. It was hard because one of the authors have the same name as my husband only spelled different. My husband's name is Noel.

I pray that your husband will be saved and God is using this to get your husband's attention. My husband isn't saved either.

God Bless

Good morning! I am so sorry about your argument! I know it is so hard not to fight when tensions are so high. Please don't let him bully you into signing any papers. Please seek counsel FIRST, both Godly and legal. I told my husband that we had over 20 years together, we didn't need to rush into divorce. I told him that I would not be serving him papers, if thats what he wanted he would have to do it himself. But, at the same time, I was told by my Christian marriage counselor to talk with an attorney and let them know what is going on, to be aware of my rights if he does serve me with papers. In fact, I have my first meeting with an attorney today. Yuk! Pray for me at around 2 today! At first, I was going to try and fight, fight, fight for my marriage if he does serve me with papers, at least try and make the judge order him into marriage counseling with me. But my counselor pointed out to me that we are COMMANDED to let an unsaved spouse leave if they want. I believe it is in Corinthians, cant remember the verse. So I will not beg, plead, fight with him to stay. That doesn't mean I won't be fighting thru spiritual warfare, tho. Praying for protection, wisdom, and faith over my husband and myself and our family. Remember, we can win our husbands to the Lord thru our "gentle" spirit! My counselor also knows that I had been praying for a Christian husband so he did tell me that it is possible that GOD is answering my prayer request, just not the way that I had planned and with whom. I have to be open to that possiblity but I am leaning on the hope that this will lead my husband to the Lord! So far he has only been staying with his parents and procrastinated on getting an apartment. So that is a good sign. We need to just take it one day at a time and draw close to the Lord - because then He will draw close to us! He knows that plans he has for us Good and NOT evil!!!! Your sis in Christ, Connie

 

[novi12]

Dear cjba and conie...... tell me somthign do u'llw ant a divorce........ if no them simple just surrender ur hubby to the lord and say Lord take care of my hubby as I trust him to u and pray for him. Regarding the notice try to avoid and types of fight just humble urself even if ur right n hes talkin out of the way just be humble n listen to what he says. Let God take the decesion as if u trust God and belive from ur heart then Lord will take decesion by puting in ur huby minds the things which u'll be suprised. Well as for me cjba........ I am not worried of the consiquences...... I have surrndered my wife to the Lord and I can feel Jesus present with me each n every min...... Since fermine is my wife and when jesus is with me I don't ahve to worry as the Lord takes care of her and does the talking. Sonner u'll here my testinomy as I know that fermine will come to me as I'll just utter one word that is sorry nothign else. You know what happened recently my things were stolen from my house ans it was my wife behind this tellign someone else to do it and I know who that person is........... I coudl have called the cop n put him in trouble........... and even my wife would be in trouble as thats the guy who came between us........... but know I dind't do it .. Jesus said win the fight with lvoe and I just smile to see the follish thing she did as I am not bothered if my money 1000$ some gold is stolen when I have the most precious thing with me JESUS He is greater then anythign in this world n when I have him I can get anythign in life. I take no tension even when my wife told me she wants to seperate...... just prays with faith and belives that the lord will take care n yes Have got messages from the Lord tht somethign good is awaiting for me soon....... n bad is gonna happen to my wife n that guy but I still pray for her n that guy to give salvation n trun to the Lord. The day the things were stolen Lord had given me the messaeg that somthgin abd is gonna take place...... n after 4 day just before when I came to know I got the message to pray n pray as Devil is gonna tempt me n yeah when I came to knwo of this devil was tempting me to do all sort of thigns........ but I just smiled and belived in Lord and phew Santa ran away. Our Faith should be repentance thats comes first, forgiveness that shoudl be unconditionally adn humbleness by believing that wahtever u ask the Lord u will receive and has receive...... do this n see for urself u won't be worried anymore. Lord Bless u'll

 

[cjba]

Sorry, I did not get on this part of the forum yesterday. Connie how did it go with the attorney? Yes, we need pray for our husbands.

I'm off to work but I will log on later.

novi12,

No, I don't want a divorce. I pray that God will be able to restore our marriage. But this does not seem to be the answer I am getting.

God Bless

 

[cjba]

Novi12,


I am amazed at your strength and faith. You are a true example of what our faith should be.

I'm working on it.

God Bless