He's going through it again

[novi12]

Dear cjba its all the faith and belief one should have. here see what happened to me yesterday.
Let me tell you what happened to me Yesterday I got another message in the Gospel reading of yesterday Mathew 18:15-20 It was about forgiveness of your brothers and it was like a challenge to me to reconcile to my enmy by asking forgiveness as I had forgive the guy who came into our life as a friend between me and my wife. So last nigth when I was thinking of calling him the satan was tempting me not to.... I just smiled n told satan that m going to call and I did call this person to say sorry. You know what this person answered and just kept quiet hearing my voice as I and disconected when I just said haloo twice nothing else. This way I have rejected satan and did what God wanted. Today I sent himw a mail her it is:
Hi Jerry Good Morning! how are you howz your mother? Last night I tried calling you as I wanted to apologize for my wrong behaviour and hurting you in some way with my words. I am sorry for all that. Secondly I would like to thank you for coming into our life, as through you I came more closer to Lord Jesus and today I can feel his presence within me every moment. Thanks and God Bless you Jerry. Take care and have a lovely day.

Now you know this guy would be wondering what I am upto as this was the guy who took my things. This is how I go even when in difficulties and trial and I get the fruit from humbleness. and I am happy today as the Lord is with me every min
So don't disheartened just experience the Lord with faith. When u said I belive believe in each adn every word.
cjba you just have to belive and belive the Lord and pray for your hubby and that will give u the best happiness in life. SO just pray for the Precious Blood to be poured on you adn your hubby adn when u say this feel that the Blood is the Precious Blood.. this is called faith. Hope you have understadn the faith we should have.
Lord Bless my sister and cover her and her hubby with your Precious Blood and restore their marriage life. Amen

 

[connielw]

Good morning Novi and Cjba! Hope that the 2 of you are doing OK today! The appt with the attorny went OK. The worst part was trying to drive my way thru Seattle to get there - LOL. Got lost on the way home - LOL. But eventually I found my way! We just went over our assetts etc, and told me what I would be entitled too, etc. I told her that I didn't want to file and I would only need her if he did. She was fine with that and told me to wait it out as my hubby seems really confused and to give him time and maybe he will come home. I have been reading B. Grahams "Journey" book and it is so inspiring. It just reaffirms what we have in God and our Christian walk! I have been wondering what I would do if he did come back. Of course I would be happy, but also have feelings of betrayal and anger. The prodigal son has been on my mind alot the last couple days. I know he welcomed his son back in celebration and forgiveness. But do you they had a father/son "talk" about it in the days that followed? I have been reading the "Boundaries" book by CLoud looking for some answers, too. I feel definately that he would have to be willing to go to marriage counseling or we would be right back at square one. OH, well, what am I thinking. He is still at his parents (week 3). Bet they love having their 42 year old son live with them - LOL. I guess its a good sign that he hasn't forged ahead with getting his own apartment. That reminds me his B-day is this weekend. I was going to get him a golf gift certificate from the kids and sign my name to it also. Do you think thats enough from me? Kind of an awkward situation. Oh well, I am rambling. Lord, thank you for another day! Please watch over us today, protecting us from all that may harm and Help us grow more like Christ in how we deal with others! Create in us a new heart! Thanks again for your Son and his atoning sacrifice! Amen! Have a GREAT day!, Connie

 

[cjba]

Novi12 and Connielw,

For one you both amaze me with your faith. I am learning to a have a closer walk with the Lord. Today was the first time I felt like me. I had peace today. Some tears but mostly peace.

Novi12,

I can only imagine what that guy must be thinking. Maybe by witnessing your attitute towards him he may find himself believing there is a God. What an amazing God we have.

Connielw,

I have an appt. with a lawyer on the 21st of this month. Our court date is Sept. 7th. My husband wants the judge to settle everything for us. He brought it up the first day that we need to talk about our finances. At that time I could not and he has not brought it up since. He just says a judge will decide.

To both,

I do plan on protecting myself. But I have decided not to have my daughters write the letter to get him out of the home. I feel this would be my flesh partaking in the divorce. I have prayed to God and He knows that I want no part of the divorce. My husband did tell me saturday during our arguement that he did not need my signature to get a divorce. For this is true. As mentioned I will protect myself in regards to our assets. I will do the required paperwork that is needed 10 days prior to court. I don't know if he is doing this. Maybe he is not telling me either. But at least it will be 100% him when it comes time for him to move out. And it will be 100% him to sign for the divorce. God will see that I have kept my hands clean of this terrible act of breaking up a family. This will all lay with my husband.

God Bless you both and I lift your families to God.

God Bless

 

[pboop]

I know God loves me. I never thought that God may not want this marriage for me. It is so hard to let go but I'm trying.

Today my 14 year old had a doctor's appt.. The doctor ended up putting her on depression medicaiton due to our situation. Part of me is sad because of this but more of me is getting mad that he did this to our daughter.

I then went to the doctor myself to get something for the congestions I have had for several days. And this doctor gave me something for anxiety to help me sleep. He was able to tell I haven't slept in awhile. So today I did sleep for 2 hours.

He arrived home before I did today but the odd part is he called me to tell me he was getting out of work early and was on his way home. I thought maybe he got out of work early to start packing. Instead he tells me that he was tired and was going home to get some sleep. By the time I came home I was already feeling the medication take affect in getting sleepy. Our only conversation was on what was needed to be said. That hurt like a knife.

He took my son to get a pair of glasses so I decided to take a look upstairs anticipating some packed items. He did not pack anything.

When I was at the doctors office alone with a 2 1/2 hour waiting period, I went into a deep prayer for guidance. When everything was silent in my mind all I heard within myself was "sit still". I'm a little confused due to the fact my husband as of right now has not started packing. And what if he doesn't...do I bring it up? Or do I let it go and let him stay here.

I feel the best way of me letting go would be for him to leave. Yet, if I am to stay still I am to mention nothing and see what happens. Which one would any of you do?

Thank you all so very much for the communication and prayers.

cjba...there was excellent advice here...I even took it in regarding my own situation. Marapetra,Sugerjay, lvs2sng...all seem to be blessed with wisdom. I can't think of anything better than what was said. God bless you and your family may the comfort of the Holy Spirit be with you all through this.

 

[cjba]

Patiricia,

I'm glad you found somthing here to give you some advise and peace.

God Bless.

Lisa

 

[novi12]

Hi conie thats a good news and surely ur hubby will return but let me tell u one thing surrender urself to the Lord and do his wish as Lord wants each one of us to reconcile and humble ourself even if we are right. We can do this right connie cuz this is a small thing for us.. Jesus payed the price for our sins by taking the heavey cross and died for us. He had the power to destroy his enemies but he humbled himself.......... to show us to repent and humble ourselves by means of forgiving our enemies. Belvie that Jesus is their and everything will be fine.

Cjba u still need to trust God and elave it to him dear...... I would ask u to repent by going for confession and forgive all thsoe who has hurt u .. n see lord will touch u. When u say the prayers feel the whole thing n imagine it. Early in the morning say this prayer. Lord Jesus cover my hubby (name) children n urself with ur Precious Blood and feel that blood on u that time n tell me how u feel.
Lord guide connie adn cjba through thy happiness and restore their marriage life lord I pray this through Christ our lord Amen

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

I am getting stronger and finding myself having a closer walk with God.

Today my husband asked me, "why do you make plans for the future" I was talking to him about a camping trip we are going to with his family on Labor day weekend. So far he has not told me not to go. So I'm going. I told him it is a camping trip and we need to make plans. I also told him no one knows the future so I am going to live.

I have the Lord in my heart! My pain is not a piercing. My tears are not as often. My aches are not as strong. I owe this to God for helping me in this season in my life.

I continue to pray for the salvation of my husband and the softening of his heart. I don't want to say God cannot do miracles or anything like that. It is that my husband told me today that it is not a phase he is going through this is something he has felt for a along time. He told me it was not me and I did not need to try so hard. It is him. Even though I know it is him and not me this does not make the pain any easier.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Thats nice to hear cjba yes miracles happens. The lord is talking to u all the time listen to him with ur ears open. We should surrender each adn everythign to the Lord and do according to thy will not our will as Jesus paid the price and bought us and so we should be his slave but Jesus wants us to be his children not his slave. Yes cjba be nice n humble urself to ur hubby ...... and things will change as ur hubby minds to wil change n he will come back to u. Lord thank u for Blessing cjba with strength. Guide her and her hubby and cover them with ur precious Blood. Amen

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

Well sorry to say it was short lived. My husband was very hurtful today. He really has not been home for most of the weekend.

He told me that he feels nothing for me. He told me is uncomfortable in his own home because of me. He told me he is comfortable only with the kids. He did tell me it was nothing I did. It is what he feels. He also told me not to pray for him because prayer does not work. He told me that I am praying in hopes to have our marriage. He told me it is not going to work. He is only getting worse. He told me to start the paperwork. I told him I will keep my hands clean of this. He told me he will then start. I told him he needs to leave because of the affect it is having on our children. He told me he will arrange something with his parents and maybe stay over there for 3 days. Where the 3 days comes from I don't know. Maybe he is right prayer does not help those who do not want to be helped.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Hi cjba don't loose ur hope in the Lord. God is wonderful. He loves u cjba. Its ur hubby who got different idea. But I guess u should not take things in ur hands by asking him to leave. Surrender it to the Lord cjba. Here is what I am gona tell u cjba. God wants to cleanse everyone of us. so u prepare urself first and automatically ur hubby will change his mind to cuz through u ur hubby is pure and God will forgive his sins. This same goes to connie
Evaluate Jesus life how much pain he went through and what if u had to go through that? This is where the blockage starts cuz u think that things are not working and God is not answering ur prayers. The devil is clearly working in our life. God wants to cleanse us, wants to remove all ur blocks. Tell me if ur car carburettor is choked up what happens.. the car does not start cuz of the blockage till u clean them. Same way clean the blockage each one has thats what Jesus asking u. Evaluate ur life from the start and think whats left for u'll to Repent and forgive everyone and be humble. If these blocks are removed then satan won't dare to enter as everyone will feel the holy spirit present all the time. Secondly give the lord the first preference in ur life... Remember God is very Jealous God. He needs our love for him more than anyone. So love the Lord and tell him its his will to ans the prayers..... then see how the life will change when you love God more than anyone. Surrender everything to him and he will do the needfull and even guide u what to say. I have surrender myself and my wife to Jesus giving him first preference and just praying thats it. I get all my replies from the Lord and the Lord tells me what to do and what not to. Lord is very prowerful and wonderful. he does not forget anyone but wants everyone to be cleansed. So dear children Repent from ur sins. Show that u love the Lord by confessing you sins unconditionally and surrendering urself. Yes I am telling you once again REPENT thats what Jesus wants if u'll want to tell Jesus that ur love is passionate for him. Do this and see how the life changes when u'll forgive everyone and surrender urself and ur loved once to the Lord. I am reminding the four things again that brings u closer to Jesus.
1) Repent (confess with faith by evaluating ur life from the begening) Ask the holy spirit to help u in this (once a week)
2) Forgive ur enemies, parents, relatives and everyone even if they have hurt u badly in life. (Jesus was beaten , corwned with torns, nailed to the cross but he still forgave everyone)
3) Humbleness practice (Practice humility all the time.)
4)The last is surrender urself totally and let Jesus do according to his will and belive in Jesus
After doing this see how ur life will change. Well this post is directed for everyone who comes here. Miracles are created when the blockage are totally removed. Thank you everyone for reading this and changing ur life.
Read Mathew21: 12-14 Jesus cleaned his temple of all illegal activities. And then showed his power by curing the sick people. This is what he says to us that we need cleaniness in our life. When u read the word of the Lord u'll understand things better once the blocks have been removed.
A man who had married and had one son had a business of two produts with 20 workers. He didn't not know God nor prayed and as a result he was in debt for 17 Lakhs. As a result there were lots of problem in his life, drinking, fightint with his wife etc. One day when he was surfing the tv chanells he came across God Tv and started applying all those were expained. By Joyce meyer, bennyhimm, tom paster, etc and his life started changing as the Lord was guiding him in clearing his depts and in next few years not only he cleared his debts but his produts increased from 2 to 40 with more workers workin for him. This is how God works in a person who removes the blocks that are in him and surrenders himself.
Now this guy and his family is happy and he helps the God tv .. and the others.

Praise u Lord I hope everyone have understood what I have said. I won't say sorry if I have used Harshed words but its The Lord who has directed me to speak this .. as this thoughts came into my mind last night and I was thinking of u'll.
God Bless u.. Praise u Jesus, Thank you lord for guiding me to speak to them, ur wonder Lord I adore u lord for all the troubles and blessing that comes across me. Lord jesus soften cjba hubby heart and show him the love of cjba. Cover them with ur precious Blood and restore their marriage life Amen.
novi12
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[cjba]

Novi12,

Thank you so much for the continued prayer and for helping stay strong in the Lord. So many here have been so wonderful.

How is it going for you? Have their been any changes in your wife?

I continue to lift you and your family in prayer.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

No CJBA as the evil things should be removed from my wife mind and then only she will change but I know as the Lord says keep praying n my wife will return for sure and I belive and have faith in him.
Here is soemthign for u to pray..


Begin with In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

On small Beeds: L: Abba Father, purify us in the holy Blood of Jesus
R: And fill us with your Holy Spirit
(Say this ten times)

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

On small Beeds: L: Abba Father, purify (hubby's/wife's name) in the holy Blood of Jesus
R: And fill (hubby's/wife's name) with your Holy Spirit
(Say this ten times)

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

On small Beeds: L: Abba Father, purify Broken families in the holy Blood of Jesus
R: And fill Broken families with your Holy Spirit
(Say this ten times)

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

On small Beeds: L: Abba Father, purify Enemies in the holy Blood of Jesus
R: And fill Enemies with your Holy Spirit
(Say this ten times)

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

On small Beeds: L: Abba Father, purify the Church in the holy Blood of Jesus
R: And fill the Church with your Holy Spirit
(Say this ten times)

On big Beeds: Heavenly Father, Jesus our Saviour, Holy Spirit our Consoler, we love, we praise you and we worship you.
Halleluia, Halleluia, Halleluia, ( Say this three times)

We can substitute different intentions:
1. Our Mind
2. Body
3. Sexuality
4. Emotions
5. Intellect
6. Memory
7. Past Life
8. Family
9. Parents
10. Children
11. Brothers & Sisters
12. Relatives
13. Ancestors
14. Neighbours
15. Enemies
16. Benefactors
17. Well Wishers
18. Friends
19. The Church
20. Parishes
21. Dioceses
22. The Holy Pope
23. The Bishops
24. The Religious
25. The Ministers of the Word of God
26. The Whole World
27. The Priests
28. The Humanity
29. All the Nations
30. Our Nations
31. The Goverment
32. The Politicians
33. The Sinners
34. The Sick
35. The Poor
36. The Jobless
37. The Homeless
38. The Childless
39. Broken Families
40. All Alcoholics and drug addicts
etc....

Say this Prayer with faith and mention ur request. The Lord will have mercy on u and will grant whatever u ask for. Lord have Mercy on each oone of us.

God Bless u cjba

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

Thank you for the encouragement. Only God know what will be the end of our story.

My husband has made a choice for divorce. There is nothing in the world that I can do about it.

I have prayed and prayed and prayed some more. God gave us free will and my husband is using it to his fullest advantage/

I continue to have you and your wife in prayer.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

cjba u know something with me I am not worried of my wife n thats cuz I have Lord jesus with me all the time... so not worried at all as he does all the talking to her. I won't go for divorce neither will agree for if she decide.... will sacrifice and will sufer...... This is the faith I have in Lord Jesus n m asking u the same thing. God Bless u.
Lord guide cjba to take the right decesion as cjba and her hubby were united through u Lord and u never wants anyone to be seperated. Show cjba hubby ur love for him and unite them Lord amen

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

How are you doing? I am amazed at your faith.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Things are not going well but when Lord is there I am not worried as my wife is talkign to my friend..... and its Lord who has bought her to talk to him .. so see how jesus speaks to her.... As my friend is trying to confort her to change her decesion but the evil should go from her then only she will change automatically...... But my decesion is final in the case of her I'll fight with the Lord now as he bought me closer to him n so he shall bring my wife back to me.....
How r u ........ and what news...... ?

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

I'm sorry to hear the situation is not doing well. I will continue to have you and your wife in prayer.

As for me the situation remains the same. Today, he told me I am in denial about our marriage. He told me it is not changing because he no longer loves me. Not the exact words but same message.

He thinks I am in denial because he sees the joy I have as my relationship with the Lord is growing. I no longer show my husband the hurt he causes me. When I break I make sure not to do it around him.

God Bless

 

[novi12]

Thats nice but I would request u to withdraw the divorce.... and these thigns will bring u'll more closer.
See what the lord says.
Jesus says in Gospel of John 3: 13-17 that everyone who believes may have enternal life with him as God loved this world so much that he gave his only son so that everyone believes in him may not be lost but may have enternal life. as God sent his son so that through him this world might be saved... but here we go for worldly pleasure and sin against the Lord. We take things in our hand.
A man should stay as he is if you are tied with wife/hubbby do not look for freedom instead give Glory to God for giving us lovley wife/hubby. if you are seperate from ur wife/hubby then don't look for one but if a man marries its no sin and its not a sin for a young girl to marry ..... They will have their troubles in married life....... and I am telling u this to spare u'll so listen to me and don't go for divorce.
Lord Jesus we come together and raise all those families who are on the verge of seperation, divorcees etc Grant them the deliverance so that they can accept their mistake and forgive each other uniting with each other as lovely couples giving example to others. Defy the devil that comes ruining our married life Amen

 

[cjba]

Novi12,

It is my husband who wants the divorce not me. I have no choice in the matter. Looks as if I am getting a divorce whether I want one or not.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

How's your week going, cj?