Aft,
I'm hanging in there. Having more better days. I'm sure they will get a lot better once he is out of the house.
How are you doing?
God Bless
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Aft,
I'm hanging in there. Having more better days. I'm sure they will get a lot better once he is out of the house.
How are you doing?
God Bless
AirForceTeacher
King of the Wicker People
Everyone thinks I'm getting better except me 
I'm just trying to do what's right every day, for whatever reason gets me there. If I do the right thing, for the wrong reason, but it's still the right thing, I'm ahead.
I'm just trying to do what's right every day, for whatever reason gets me there. If I do the right thing, for the wrong reason, but it's still the right thing, I'm ahead.
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Everyone thinks I'm getting better except me
I'm just trying to do what's right every day, for whatever reason gets me there. If I do the right thing, for the wrong reason, but it's still the right thing, I'm ahead.
Aft,
First of all don't be too hard on yourself. If people around you think you are getting better I see that as a positive sign. You need to be able to accept what they see. Sometimes we judge ourselves to harshly.
You need to let go of the negative thinking. You need to imagine yourself as you want to be and then become that person.
Yes, you are ahead! Amen!
God Bless
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Autumnleaf,
He actually had me served 3 times already. I had him served once and he saw the papers for the first time on this past Sunday.
He told me I am in denial we are getting a divorce. He really had no response to what was on paper. He made it seem as if it was nothing at all.
He actually had me served 3 times already. I had him served once and he saw the papers for the first time on this past Sunday.
He told me I am in denial we are getting a divorce. He really had no response to what was on paper. He made it seem as if it was nothing at all.
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You've played nice with one hand tied behind your back for long enough. Get the best=morally dubious lawyer you can find and divorce your husband without mercy. Take everything you can get. Max him out on everything from alimony to child support and go thru with it until the divorce is legally final. From now until the end of the divorce follow your lawyers advice to the letter.
When your husband is broke without a home he'll probably be much more agreeable to honoring his vows to you. You just have to stay strong to get him to where he needs to be.
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I can't pack his stuff and change locks. It is against the law here in California. He has a right to be in the house because he is on the title. If I changed the locks all he would have to do is call the police dept. and they would get him in. This happened to someone I know that is how I found out I can't do it.
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