Hi there
I cannot reconcile that God will punish or hold the children responsible ( ie with death) for the failure of the parents.
But rather that He, as other translations say, visit the iniquity... imo, ie, tests to see if the failure (iniquity is evident in the actions of the children and grandchildren...
As previously posted numbers 14.
Moses appeals to God, that He not destroy the people.
Now may the Lord’s strength be displayed, just as you have declared: ‘The Lord is slow to anger, abounding in love and forgiving sin and rebellion. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation.’
In accordance with your great love, forgive the sin of these people, just as you have pardoned them from the time they left Egypt until now.”
The Lord replied, “I have forgiven them, as you asked. Nevertheless, as surely as I live and as surely as the glory of the Lord fills the whole earth, not one of those who saw my glory and the signs I performed in Egypt and in the wilderness but who disobeyed me and tested me ten times— not one of them will ever see the land I promised on oath to their ancestors
. No one who has treated me with contempt will ever see it (even Moses was not spared... God is no respector of persons)
So tell them, ‘As surely as I live, declares the Lord, I will do to you the very thing I heard you say: In this wilderness your bodies will fall—every one of you twenty years old or more who was counted in the census and who has grumbled against me. Not one of you will enter the land I swore with uplifted hand to make your home, except Caleb son of Jephunneh and Joshua son of Nun. As for your children that you said would be taken as plunder,
I will bring them in to enjoy the land you have rejected. (The children did not die for the sin of the parents).
And then in kings we have this righteous act by king Amaziah as per Deuteronomy 24:18
2 Kings 14: 5-6 After the kingdom was firmly in his grasp, he executed the officials who had murdered his father the king.
Yet he did not put the children of the assassins to death, in accordance with what is written in the Book of the Law of Moses where the Lord commanded: “Parents are not to be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their parents; each will die for their own sin.”
I also hold that God is sovereign and can do as He pleases and for His all knowing purposes... So all His attributes should be held in tension...
So with my limitation as a created being I'm still trying to wrap my head around what transpired here...
Numbers 16:22 But Moses and Aaron fell facedown and cried out, “O God, the God who gives breath to all living things, will you be angry with the entire assembly when only one man sins?”
27So they moved away from the tents of Korah, Dathan and Abiram. Dathan and Abiram had come out and were standing with their wives,
children and little ones at the entrances to their tents
31-33As soon as he finished saying all this, the ground under them split apart and
the earth opened its mouth and swallowed them and their households, and all those associated with Korah, together with their possessions. They went down alive into the realm of the dead, with everything they owned; the earth closed over them, and they perished and were gone from the community.