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leigh01

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Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y
Y DUZ MA M0M HATE ME Y DUZ SHE LUK DOWN ON ME Y DUZ SHE LIKE DA OTHER COMPARED TO ME SHE SLAPPS ME FOR SHOUTIN WEN I WASNT SHE JUST GIVES THE OTHERS A BE QUIET LIL VOICE ISH SORTA THING

I GET MUNY I HAVE TO PAY IT BAK MY BRO GETS IT AND HE DUSNT AFTA!!!

MA SISTA SED ITS ALL MY FAULT MY PARENTS ARGU AND IT WUD BE BETTA IF I RAN AWAY FROM HOME AND LEFT WHY UZ EVRY1 HATE ME !!!

I WISH I WAS DEAD WHY AM I HATED!!!:help: :sigh: :( :cry:
 
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I dont hate you. God doesnt either.

Sounds like your family are giving you a rough ride. When my parents were together i had the same sort of thing, its really hard and i know its attacking your self esteem. It is NOT your fault that your parents argue. Even if the row is about you the underlying row is actually about one parent not supporting the other in a certain point of view, so please dont take to heart anything that is said that makes you feel you are to blame.

Im sorry about your relationship with your mum hun, mine is very like that too, the whole having to pay her back money, and being told to shut up even when its not me shouting. Just try and take it and not aruge. Pray about it, God really can break through this situation and if you can show her grace then maybe she'll start showing you some

Dont wish you were dead, death is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This will change, it may be a slow process but things never stay the same. Keep your chin up, im praying for you
 
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oh sweetheart. if i could wrap my arms around you, i would. i felt like an outsider in my family. it would be good if you write all your feelings down and let mum and dad have it. i'm sorry you are stuggling. God bless you! do the best you can sweetheart at everything you can. you will not be a child forever. so build upon your life. please don't wish you were dead. :hug: your life is very important. i love you sweet little leigh :hug:
 
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leigh01 said:
Y Y Y Y Y Y Y Y
Y DUZ MA M0M HATE ME Y DUZ SHE LUK DOWN ON ME Y DUZ SHE LIKE DA OTHER COMPARED TO ME SHE SLAPPS ME FOR SHOUTIN WEN I WASNT SHE JUST GIVES THE OTHERS A BE QUIET LIL VOICE ISH SORTA THING

I GET MUNY I HAVE TO PAY IT BAK MY BRO GETS IT AND HE DUSNT AFTA!!!

MA SISTA SED ITS ALL MY FAULT MY PARENTS ARGU AND IT WUD BE BETTA IF I RAN AWAY FROM HOME AND LEFT WHY UZ EVRY1 HATE ME !!!

I WISH I WAS DEAD WHY AM I HATED!!!:help: :sigh: :( :cry:

Thirteen is the year when so many changes are occuring in you and it's not unusal for you not to get along with your parents. I remember being there myself. and I know it's hard not to feel like everyone is against you, but God loves you and so do I as well as many other people on this board.
I know that there are times you must feel all alone, but try to remember that God is always with you so you are never really alone. I wish I were there to give you a great big hug and kiss. Hold on darlin' things will get better for you, sometimes it just takes a little while. Please don't say that you wish you were dead, as someone else stated that is a final solution to a temporary problem. we all want you here. Because you are loved! :hug:
 
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Don't worry i go through the same thing at home too. I have a problem though. When i get yelled at i think i'm so stupid and then i got and SI. I have an addiction to it. But if you and i keep are faith in God the i'm sure we can get through it! please e-mail me and tell me how things are going, if you'd like.i'm always free to chat! God Bless!

-Stasia
 
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